What can you do when you broke up mutually and she got back with her ex and is unhappy and she says she still loves you and you still love her and want to get back together with her?

Answer 1

What it means is that she was trying to find comfort and security out of her old ways. She obviously is confused and doesn't know what she wants. Be very careful, because as the old saying goes..."if the dog bites once, it'll bite again". However, now that she is unhappy while being back with her ex-boyfriend, mabye she has realized what she lost when you broke up now that it is gone. If you both still love each other and consider getting back together, do it only if you both are very sure of this. If she THINKS that she wants to get back together, wait until she KNOWS that she wants to get back together. Otherwise, walk away. Am I right?

Answer 2

First of all do you love her? Here are some article from wiki on the subject of love that you might find helpful. Unrequited love: The choice for the beloved is limited, to destroy the friendship or acquaintance is the quickest resolution. Nevertheless, many people see it as cruel, and may not have the courage to end such relations. The beloved can choose to continue the friendship, this means that every move will be interpreted by the admirer as above and beyond friendship. This creates a mismatch in intentions, the beloved merely enjoys spending time with the admirer as friends, whereas the admirer dotes over his or her beloved. Such mismatch can only lead to more awkwardness. Thus, there is no happy ending for unrequited love. This is especially true of close friends, where usually the destruction of the friendship may not happen, instead condemning both players to extreme awkwardness and unfulfilled desires. At extreme ends, friends can even become enemies when one party reveals his or her true feelings. It is not uncommon for the admirer to become wrathful and vindictive once the rejection has been spelt out. Unrequited love also questions whether different sex friends can maintain platonic relationships. Although this is a topic on a tangent, it is often the case that unrequited love stems from friendship circles. In modern society this is especially painful, as frequent get togethers cause much awkwardness and false hope. The length of unrequited love can stretch on for years, it is different to that of Puppy love. It is not uncommon for unrequited love to last for more than seven or more years, eventually stretching into decades. Basically unless you love her don't do it! You'll just be leading her into a false sense of hope.