No. The primary purpose of dating is to find a mate. Many cultures still have parents serve in this role, but typically not in the United States. An 11 year girl in any culture is not physically or emotionally mature enough to deal with searching for a mate - especially in the United States. Many have not started menses and if they have, it is very early. In addition, the boys involved are typically older - 13 to 15 years old, and they are also not in the stage in life to find a mate, nor are they physically or emotionally capable of engaging in our "American mating ritual" in a healthy or balanced way.
Unfortunately, American culture and parents have neglected providing the guidance and healthy boundaries that children need. Our society has taken the creed out of context - that everyone, even our children, have the independent right to peruse happiness. Yet, teaching a child to delay gratification is actually essential to being able to be a heappy, well-adjusted adult. Not to mention, their desire for a boy-friend is probably motivated by external media hype and pressure from peers. Allowing real boy-friends does not help prepare the child for the challenges of adolescence or adulthood in our sexually charged society.
well, we think He look sexy, He look ugly, I wonder if he is a good kisser
different person: If you're wondering what qualities we look for in boys... The most important things to me are that he's sweet and kind to everyone, goes out of his way to make your day, and he is hardworking/passionate towards goals, hobbies, etc. I also love smart boys with brains and because of this, i tend to have crushes on people that all the other girls call the "ugly" boys. I don't care about how he looks, although a smile on your face is extremely attractive. a laugh? ten times that. and just as boys hate it when girls act stupid, some girls (like me) hate it when guys act stupid too ;)
Well it all depends on the type of girl
some girls dont think much of them
others can imagine kissing or doing stuff with them
most though just think about good looks
I am an 11 year old girl myself, and when I see boys, I look at their face and hair. Girls don't really dig long, flowy hair, unless your face and body is drop-dead beautiful. They like faces with big jawbones, medium-sized noses, and luscious lips. When they see a cute boy, they smile. Then Girls usually think of making-out with them. Does that answer your question sweetheart?
Well...
Girls like it when boys hang with them a lot like at lunch or after school. Girls also like it when boys are romantic and kind. Also they like humor, talent and smarts. Girls also like when boys come right out and say that they're crushin on them.
Girls dislike when boys act gross and annoy them. Girls also hate it when boys ignore them in front of your friends.
I have my opinion answer and my jokey answer...
Opinion: I usually think about this boy I like
Jokey: rainbows, unicorns, and bacon
Well, it depends on the boy. Most 11 year old boys do like girls! But still, I know a 12 year old who is afraid of girls still. It really depends!
i think boys
I think boys think they can so they dont do it girls dont think they cant so they do it.
no because boys don't have the same thoughts as girls they don't think about us they think about games maybe once or twice a day they would think about us
girls think different than gurlz some boys depending on their personalty..... but most think about girls and kissing or protecting the women
boys are different to girls but I think that the causes are similar
not true,boys like girls even if they are older
Well I think there equal. Because when I was at Math Counts, I saw a equal amount of boys and girls. So I think that boys are better at math then girls is baised.
They think that they have nothing better to do and they think the girls are pretty.
No, boys only think dancing is for girls.
55.55% I think
Girls. Cause they pay attention more not boys. Boys think about sports and recess more. Girls don't that is why girls tend to pay attention more.
I think that girls love more than boys and in the long run get hurt more than the boys.