There is no such thing as a 'compensatory narcissist'. It is a fake term made up by psychopath Sam Vaknin (see Related Links).
No Contact with a Narcissist is always best.
A compensatory narcissist would not be able to have a successful second marriage. This is because they would always be craving praise while belittling their spouse to make themselves feel better.
Leave him
By not caring about them and improving your own life. Don't try it. Just leave. You're asking for trouble if you think you need to get even with him.
I am not looking for revenge nor am I trying to heal. I just want it to end. What buttons do I push?
"Sucess is the best form of revenge."
success is the best revenge
Yes it is......... I know from experience
The duration of Success Is the Best Revenge is 1.52 hours.
Revenge is best served cold!
Revenge is:- A Dish Best Served Cold.
You will never win against a narcissist. The best advice I can give is to run away and think of yourself. Wake up to the fact that every glimmer of hope is false. Ignore him and move on until you no longer want revenge because you have started to care about yourself and regained your self worth.
Marcus Aurelius - The best revenge is to be unlike to one who performed the injustice (or who performed the injury) Or, the best revenge is not to be like your enemy.