A little more detail: I recently started catching my girlfriend in lies... and not just little ones. The first time, I waited until I had all of the correct information, then confronted her. When she lied to cover it up, I told her to gather her belongings (she stayed at my house quite frequently) and that I never wanted to see her again. She apologized profusely, bawled her eyes out, and explained that she will do anything to stay with me. I accepted her apology under the terms that if I ever caught her in even the smallest of lies again, then it would be over immediately... no questions asked. Less than 24 hours later, I caught her in yet another huge lie. I haven't confronted her about it yet, as I've read that alienation and confrontation do not work. It's in my nature to help others so I can't walk away from her, but I feel like I'm dating Sam from Garden State. So, what's my next step?
This is really up to you. You can confront her and ask her why, and tell her how much it hurts your relationship. Talk it out.
I didn't talk about it I just dumped her because i can't stand to be lied to. I think we need to talk it out and let me find out why. But she was sleeping wit someone else.
tell her "are you cheating on me?" and if she says no then just say"i cant believe you" if she gets all mad and snappy then just walk away or pack your things and just be happy sharing your life with your familiy or yourself. but if its more than just that,than you need to stalk her,its the only way you don't get played.
Kick her to the curb,dump that girl like a dump truck.
I would deal with it by finding another girlfriend!
u should just forget about her and look for someone else
i cant answer this you figure it out on your own!:( or get a life and grow up really quick
Tell her to go make you a sammich.
Get rid.
if you love me, you will trust me. i woudn't do ____ because i love you.
If a man has another girlfriend, he is already lying to his first girlfriend and he is most likely lying to his second girlfriend. The man does not care about or have respect either of them. This describes a narcissist. because they are evil
I would stear clear of him....number 1 he is lying to you already---he has a girlfriend---and number 2 what if you were that girlfriend....he is just another cheating guy. www.bethebride.net
Yes, she is lying. She's nothing more than a fan.
you try to get proof that she's lying and then when u get it, show it 2 ur friend
Yes, if your boy/girlfriend is smiling awkwardly and not looking directly at you that means they are lying to you about something.
if she is lieing to you , you should get the facts and prove that she is lieing to you after that confront her and say its over then walk away without saying anything
Depends on the lie. If it is a lie that is a small one she may forgive you, but if it is a lie that is a large one she most likely will not be your girlfriend. It depends on her and how she feels about your relationship. Either way you have shown disrespect to her by lying to her.
If he's lying to you now, there is a good chance he will lie to you later if you started dating him. As long as he is still dating his girlfriend, you should keep your distance. He might like you, or he might be enjoying the attention of having a girlfriend and having you like him at the same time.
Yes most definately. That is a very important detail in your life that you should not side step - no sense hiding or lying about anything it will just cause problems or enemies.
she is 34 yrs old she is a grown lady lying about herage..