What tips should a virgin use to make her first time smoother?


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First off be very sure that you are ready for sex, virginity is very precious and should not be given lightly, and you can never get it back. After that it is helpful to try to relax, if you are tense it will make your vaginal muscles tighter, and can cause it to actually be more painful, foreplay is very important, as it will relax you and make your body ready for sex. Also make sure your partner knows you are a virgin so that he can be gentle with you. Some personal lubricant is a very good idea, because you will most likely be nervous, and that can cause you to be drier down there than normal. Most of all make sure your partner does not try to skip to foreplay, that is what will cause you to become naturally lubricated.