How do you make 'the first time' with your virgin wife-to-be easier for her?

Answer 1

Spend as much time with her as you can during the days before and on the day. Do it somewhere where she is comfortable and feels at-home. Make sure it is somewhere where she isn't worried at all about getting caught or interupted. Take the phone off the hook. Maybe play some music that she likes; something that will get her relaxed. Take things slowly; plenty of foreplay. Also, use lubrication (KY jelly or similar). Again, take things slowly, and talk. Stretch the hymen, my husband and I were recommended this on a CD by Dr. Ed White and it was extremely helpful and simple. It takes time and patience though. I feel that it made our first experience much better. It also helps to not pressure her. If she feels pain don't push it until she has adjusted to the feeling and it helps to not pressure for sex in the first night. I wanted to but couldn't so we waited and kept stretching and it worked out great.

Answer 2

First off be very sure that you are ready for sex, virginity is very precious and should not be given lightly, and you can never get it back. After that it is helpful to try to relax, if you are tense it will make your vaginal muscles tighter, and can cause it to actually be more painful, foreplay is very important, as it will relax you and make your body ready for sex. Also make sure your partner knows you are a virgin so that he can be gentle with you. Some personal lubricant is a very good idea, because you will most likely be nervous, and that can cause you to be drier down there than normal. Most of all make sure your partner does not try to skip to foreplay, that is what will cause you to become naturally lubricated.

Answer 3

You must make steps. Try kissing and hugging on the first place. You can undress whenever you feel like, but not too fast. You can rub her breasts and lick them. Of course you must show something of yourself, so let's see what happens if you don't do anything. You can undress around now. And after that you can try anything you want! Start slowly, end the way you want. Good luck!