I am assuming you mean "What should a non-Jew do at a Jewish funeral?" If that is your question, then the answer is: don't do anything that stands out. Just follow the lead of those around you, carrying yourself in a conservative manner. Wear business attire and sit in the appropriate section by gender. Remain quiet for the funeral service and the burial service. Do not accept any offers for participation in carrying or moving the casket or filling in the grave, as these should be performed by Jews.
At a Jewish funeral home or synagogue or at the graveside.
Yes, it was.
At a Jewish funeral home or synagogue or at the graveside.
D. Weinberger has written: 'The funeral and cemetery handbook =' -- subject(s): Burial laws (Jewish law), Handbooks, manuals, Jewish Funeral rites and ceremonies, Jewish mourning customs, Jewish funeral rites and ceremonies
Friends and family of the deceased
Yes, but it is not required.
Shaul Israeli has written: 'Dabar le-dor' -- subject(s): Hebrew Jewish sermons, Jewish funeral sermons, Jewish Funeral sermons 'Sefer Mishpete Shaul'
Virtually all Jews in Israel at the time of Jesus had Jewish funerals, including Jesus. At that time, a Jewish funeral would have NOT included a coffin.However, according to Christian belief, Jesus was never buried.
Sunday
The funeral, which in ideal circumstances, is also the day of death.
It depends on what other funeral ceremonies you are comparing it to. Even so it is no less distressing nor less respectful.
The rituals surrounding death and burial in Judaism are very specific. The funeral must be lead by either a rabbi or someone Jewish (in non-Orthodox communities, it can be either a Jewish man or woman). Although it might be acceptable for a non-Jew to speak at a Jewish funeral in some communities, it would never be appropriate for that person to speak on behalf of the family.