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What would it mean if you tell a girl your feelings and she replies that she can't have a relationship yet?
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∙ 13y ago
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I was the girl in another situation. Okay I did kinda like him but I wasn't allowed to go out. I wasn't completely crazy about him otherwise I would have broken the rules. It can be a way to say no, or it is true. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings but whatever you do, if you have a group of friends you always hang out with don't ask one of them out. It makes it REALLY awkward!
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Wait a bit if you really like her
AnswerI'm a girl and my guess is that the girl is not interested in the relationship, but she doesn't really know how to refuse or reject so saying she can't have a relationship is the best excuse. I did that too.
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I am a 13 year old girl and when I say I can't date it's because my parents won't let me. My sister is 16 and my parents won't let her date either! Sometimes it is an excuse but I think if a girl really likes you she will bend the rules.
AnswerMy parents wont let me date so it is NOT just a way to say no.
AnswerSometimes, when I say I can't date, it because I can't date. But sometimes, it's just easier to say that. And just maybe, she can't hide things from her parents, especially not a boyfriend.
AnswerI have had that happen to me except the other way around (I am a girl and guy said that to me). If you really like the person you should just trust them and if it is meant to be it will work out. I am not saying you should spend your whole life waiting for one person I am just saying be patient. Because if the person really cares about you and you care about them, they would not lie to you.
Basically the girl doesn't like you but likes you enough to try and not hurt your feelings
AnswerI'm a 13 year old girl (although I'm in high school) and I'm honestly not ready to date yet. I am mentally unstable, in my opinion. Not that I'm insane. I just can barely have a regular conversation without bursting into tears.
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I don't think that's a good thing to have in a relationship, honestly, and, yes, I have been asked out several times before.
I'm 15 and I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until I'm 16. But there's still a difference in the way I would reply to different guys who asked me out. I mean, if the guy I like asked me out now I'd tell him that I really wish I could but at this point my parents don't feel it's best to have a relationship at this age, but if he'd like to wait until my 16th birthday I'll still be there. Then it would in a way also prove how much he was willing to give up for me, if I was just some cute girl that he asked out on a whim or if I really meant something to him. If I really didn't like the guy I'd just say I'm not even allowed. If I didn't know if I liked the guy yet I'd tell him I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend and I didn't know how I'd feel about him in a year, but anything's possible.
Either the girl you like has just recently got out a bad relationship and doesn't want to date for a while, or she really can't handle a relationship yet. And maybe she might be going through some rough times. So if you do like her it is wise to wait.
Definitely wait until she is old enough! that way you can get to know each other then later on you can have a more serious relationship without it being awkward!
It means she can't have a relationship yet. Her parents aren't letting her date. Don't push it. If she really likes you she mind bend and date you. It won't work out. Trust me, I've done it (made the girl bend).
Means she isn't interested, move on and don't become that guy. The guy that asks her and continues to try. Is she was actually interested she would come up with something else you guys could do together instead of completely dismissing it out of hand.
Different Answer:I'm 12 and I'm not allowed to date until I'm 15. When someone asks me out I just say no in the nicest way possible. Normally I'll say "I'm sorry but no. Really sorry. Thanks for asking, it was sweet but I'm not wanting a boyfriend right now."
I'm 16, not allowed to date till I'm 17. I had a boyfriend at 12. didn't date though, but we were "exclusive" because he was the best guy in the world, he said he would wait for me to be 17 and in the meantime we would still consider each other boyfriend Girlfriend. its tougher, but possible if you're crazy about her.
I'm now 16 and well, I had that before. Maybe she's just really not ready for a relationship. Or if she is a bit into you. Maybe she doesn't want to hurt you in any way. It's good that you're straight-forward with it though. Just get to know her really well and always be yourself because if you want it to last, you'd want her to love you, not who she thinks you are. Just see what's going on with her. If you really like her, wait a bit. Prove yourself to her.
I'm 13 years old. In 7th grade. I'm not allowed to date until high school. Why? My parents are protective and I accept that. Even if I fell head over heels over a guy, I would NOT, I repeat, not disobey my parents in that respect. I'd tell the guy that if he really loved me, he'd wait for me. If not, he's not worth it. Bottom line, sometimes it's an excuse. But if she's really that special, wait for her. If you catch her dating someone else, though, assume it was a lie and move on. You will feel hurt, probably. But she'll found out that you were willing to wait for her, one day, and realize she made a huge mistake.
Who knows? You guys could be just friends until she's ready/allowed. If she rejects that, assume she's not interested and move on.
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What does it mean when a guy says there cant be feelings involved?
I would of thought it meant they want a more of a physical, no strings attached relationship. Therefore they do not wish to fall or be in love.
What does it mean when someone says they love you but cant for 'reasons'?
It means that they do have feelings for you and love you, but there are other factors that are affecting their wanting to have a relationship with you. For an example, someone might love another person, but they have a job that requires them to travel all over the world and they would never be home, with the time it takes to develop and nurture a relationship. So they may decide not to get into that relationship due to that reason. The feelings are still there, but the circumstances dictate what they do about those feelings.
What does it mean when a guy is very open and direct about his interest in you but then you find out that he's already in a relationship and why would he express interest in you if that's the case?
Because he feels that he can share things with you. He trustes you and he probabaly cant hold his feelings for you. He knows you know he's in a relationship, but hes developing strong feelings towords you if he was abel to tell you.
Why would a girl let an ex boyfriend call her when she is in a relationship that is to be serious?
maybe she cant let go of him , truly. or maybe the new relationship is nothing compared to her other one ? x maybe she cant let go of him , truly. or maybe the new relationship is nothing compared to her other one ? x i think that she is prolly still friends with him. nothing to do with her liking him still . she may not want to hurt his feelings if they are still friends
What if a guy kisses a girl and the girl replies him that they are just friends?
then that's it, you cant force her to like you.
Why do guys crush on girls even though they're already in a relationship?
because you just get those weird feelings you cant hold them back but hopefully he will end the relationship before he does any thing about his feelings the same thing can happen to girls too. As a 2nd answer, I would say that guys tend to look for instant fun whereas girls are looking for a lasting friendship/relationship. As a person gets older, they begin looking for something more permanent.
My friend died today i never got to tell her my true feelings. Truth is loved her but was to shy to tell I feel horrible cant stop thinking what if i asked her out months ago would she still be alive?
your relationship with her didn't have any thing to do with her death. the only benefit you would have is not wonderinf what if.
How do you get my boyfriend's love back?
You cant control someone's feelings, i learned that the hard way. I just got out of a relationship where i was forcing the boy to love me and it hurt when he told me his true feelings but i guess it was hurting him pretending he loved me when he knew i deserved better, we just have to remember that!. At the end of the day we cant control other peoples feelings sometimes we cant even control ours!. I'm 14 i have the rest of my life to live and so do you (however old you are)! Hope i was helpful!xx
Why do you like some one while you are in a relationship?
Just because you are in a relationship doesnt mean you cant have feelings for someone else. That's normall. Iknow of lots of married people who still thin they are in love with someone else but there spouce. Get used to it!
What does it mean if you are in a committed relationship but you miss your ex girlfriend?
If you're in a committed relationship but still miss your ex-girlfriend, it could mean that there are lingering feelings or unresolved emotions towards your past relationship. It might be important to determine the root cause of these feelings and communicate openly with your current partner to address any concerns or doubts you may have.
Can a guy like you a lot and be frustrated that he cant have you because he is scared to commit again after previous marriage that he ended?
He needs time to obviously sort out his feelings. If he still feels this way he is not ready for a relationship at this time.
If you love a man and he loves you and you cant seem to let go of your ex but you want to because he was bad for you and you think the other guy and you would be happier how do you do that?
Don't jump from one relationship into another. You need to take some time for yourself and sort out your feelings and get over your ex - let him go.
