How do I cope when my ex boyfriend wants to be friends but ignores me?

Answer 1

You didn't really go into much detail, so if he just decided he won't talk to you for no reason (I doubt that) then tell him he either sits down and communicates with you or he can hit the road. I have no doubt you love him, but if he can't be better than this to you whether you did something to deserve the silent treatment or not, the future doesn't look very bright if you hang onto this guy.

Improved answer:

That depends on what you mean by friends, if you just want to be friends to be friends or want to be friends because you still like him that determines what happens next if you love him still look at the reason why you two broke up if you can't find one ask him and then see if it's at all possible to be friends and if it's your fault apologize to him and see what happens next, i wish good luck to you

Answer 2

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Ignore him back.... trust me he will notice.... plus this guy is probably isn't worth your time..... just take your mind off him. Have some Fun!!!!!!!!!! Hang out with your gf their always a big help anyway hope this helps

Answer 3

just give him some time. he probably won't want to be your friend the second you guys break up ya know. treat him nicely and attempt to have a friendly conversation with him but don't be so pushy about it. all you can do right now if just be nice and be yourself. you can't control how he acts but you can control how you act

Answer 4

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If you still like him and he doesn't want to talk to you, then, THINK. Is this guy really worth wasting my time? Do I really want to like him? If you answer 'yes' to both of these, then find a way to make things better. I may be a child, but I know a lot! If he doesn't want to talk to you, that's probably because he finds it weird. Not that there is anything wrong with you. You, as a woman or a teenager, are amazing, beautiful, and talented. Never doubt yourself. You'll just hurt yourself that way.

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While correcting the grammar on the first answer, it reminded me of an answer that I put on a different question. The question may have been different, but the answer is pretty much the same:

Trying to reestablish communication with your ex can seem to him that you're coming across as needy; so it's best to wait until you are not needy. Find a way to fill that need yourself with things that either expand your personal horizons, such as a project or hobby or an extracurricular subject or activity; or that help others with their needs like your family, church or community organization. These types of activities will make you a more confident, definitely less needy person.

Answer 5

tell him that you wanna talk to him , you wanna be friends , you might think you sound stupid but you wont he would know you care . even if he doesnt wanna talk to you , his lost .