maid of honour
Typically and traditionally in the Western World it is usually the maid of honor who stands next to the bride, followed by the bridesmaids. The term maid of honor is given to an unmarried woman, (if the woman is married she is referred to as the matron of honor), chosen by the bride to be her chief bridesmaid.
She would traditionally be called the Maid of Honor (unmarried) or Matron of Honor (married or divorced).
Matron because maid is short for maiden which is a girl or servent that has never been married.
The maid of honor refers to a brides honor attendant who is not married. To were as the matron of honor refers to one who is married. The matron is usually a best friend or sister.
The maid of honor is especially chosen by the bride to be by her side and then comes the bride's maids and you can have as many bride's maids as you like, but most bride's have three or four bride maid's and only one maid of honor.
A chief bridesmaid is the maid or matron of honor. You can have one of each, and as many additional bridesmaids as you want--there are no rules. However, too many can look ridiculous and make taking pictures difficult.
A maiden of honor is simply an unmarried bridesmaid or a girl who helps at the wedding similar to a maid of honor. Matron of honor is a married Maid of honor.
* Yes, Bridesmaids and the Maids of Honor were customary in the 16th century weddings. The wedding customs went on for longer (feasts, etc.) before the marriage than they do today. The Maid (unmarried) or Matron (married) of Honor was at the side of the bride to be constantly to make sure that the bridal wreath was made and helped the bride dress. The bridesmaids (not the bride to be or the the Maid/Matron of Honor) helped decorate the ball room for the wedding feast.
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The distinction between a Maid of Honor and Matron of Honor fall into two categories: (1) marital status and (2) age.Marital Status.Most, but not all, references define the Matron of Honor as a married woman. Those that do not indicate the Matron must be married indicate she is an older, trusted woman.Age.With respect to age, a Matron of Honor is generally thought of as older and more mature than a Maid of Honor.While, strictly speaking, a Matron is a married woman, it is also acceptable to call an older, unmarried woman the Matron of Honor.
When facing the wedding table at the reception the groom sits on the right of his new bride and the maid of honor sits on the left of the bride.
The maid of honor's job is to be the bride's best friend. As her closest friend, you should continue doing all the things that a best friend has always done. Be there for her when she needs you, listen if she has problems, help her if you can, get excited with her over what is going on in her life, etc. Typically, a MOH chooses to throw a shower or bachelorette party, and she will typically choose to help the bride with a few wedding tasks. While not required duties, these are nice things that you should do for your best friend if you can. You will probably also need to sign the marriage license, and you can give a toast or a speech at the reception if you want to.