Why do I have no friends?

Answer 1

There could be a few reasons. If you act strangely (eat gum found underneath the desk, flail your arms for no reason, etc.), this could make the other kids tend to go away from you.

You could also (this is usually the reason) not be assertive enough. If you just go up to someone who has the same interests as you and ask to sit with them at lunch, you could end up being friends.

If you are mean or rude, that could be another reason. No one wants to be friends with someone who is disrespectful.

Answer 2

Well, it depends on what type of person you are.

Are you a shy, quiet, self-consious perosn, or are you a confident person who likes being the center of attention?

It might be that you are trying to hang around with people that are not like you and then, you don't fit in.

Try joining clubs that you like... it could be sports, music, camping, cooking, arts... whatever you like doing. that way, whoever is on that team/club will have the similar interests as you, and you will make new friends that way.

Hope this helps, if you want you can put another question or something with a bit more detail of your personality and how you are getting along with other or what you have tried and I (or others) can help you more.

Answer 3

The answer to this question won't be found online. There are too many variables, including your age, gender, the sort of people you seek out and the sort of people you attract. The only comfort I can offer is that the nature of relationships is fluid and this feeling won't last forever.

Answer 4

This is my question I need to elaborate. Please help.

I am a 15 year old girl in school. No matter how much I try, no one wants to be my friend or become close to me. I look out for classmates, even talking one out of suicide although no matter how much I try being nice to people and giving to others, i never receive. Some people that I meet randomly tell me that I look good and have a great personally but for some reason no one at school sees that?!?! I've tried talking to new people, joining clubs, trying to get myself out there but nothing seems to work. The 2 friends that I have now never care about me anymore although I am scared that if I leave them, I will not gain any more friends for the 3 1/2 years I have left at school. What can I do? I see myself as a happy person during the day and just try to be nice. What could the problem be?

Answer 5

Most people are attracted to outgoing personalites. You may be nice, but if you don't socialize and hold interesting conversations, no one will approach you the way you want.

Answer 6

Cause no one likes you