There are a thousand reasons a man might call his ex-wife. If there are children or financial matters involved, it's certainly reasonable to expect communication between the ex-spouses. If your husband is calling his ex-wife, you probably don't like it but you need to think about the circumstances. And, is he doing it in your presence or are you finding out about these calls after the fact and in a roundabout way? I don't want to over-analyze it but the previous marriage and divorce situation would offer clues. For example, who filed for the divorce? Was the marriage unhappy and slowly dying or did one of the spouses just suddenly leave and the other partner shocked to find the marriage was gone? Was there a third person involved on either side? Did the husband stray, ask for the divorce, and now feels guilty because there are children involved and he is missing part of their childhood? Did the wife stray and the husband still feels betrayed and can't quite let go? It's very difficult to get into this without knowing more detail but please understand that there really are logical, rational reasons for a man to call his ex-wife. Circumstances dictate whether such calls are warranted in this particular situation.
Most times I guess because they want to keep the door open while seeing what there is around the corner and whether that is better or more suitable. Also because probably they have got used to be and share life with the ex and feel at loss without her... men are lot more needy and easily addictive to a female companion than women...no matter how strange that might sound, but I believe it is so true. Women suffered the loss and the end of a relationship more intensely just after the break ups but then the suffering pays out and the light shines through again, contrary men might go wild and have their freedom fun as soon a relationship ends but then find themselves lost in the deep end a while after. I think you can stay in contact with an ex as long as you feel confident and clear about boundaries... and never forget the reason why the relationship ended.
with ex-wives, no matter how much you choose to ignore it, Love was there once so love is still there now(Just no as bad).
so they know that they will always have someone to talk to if the relationship they are in doesnt work out
they feel like they are doing you a favor by ringing you up when all they really want is to get back in your pants.
they don't
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Go with funny stories about friends, stay away from ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends.
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And to make ex girlfriends jealous, or to find stuff about you that they can tell their friends.
You can't control him. She can speak with him, or she can make any continued contact with him be on her terms.
If my boyfriend went over to his ex-girlfriends house I would freeze him out of my life forever. And, I would tell him he could stay at his ex-girlfriends house since that is obviously where he wants to be.
Yes, he had ex-girlfriends before.
Nothing....
It depends on what the ex girlfriend was like and if he had fond memories or bad memories about her. For the most part men will remember their exes, but not always in a kind way or, they may have fond memories, but that's as far as it goes. The point is that you have him and the ex girlfriends don't.
If they were as psycho as my ex yes
Just to stay in contact and make sure he knows what's going on with you