Why does it seem like my dad loves alcohol more than me and my family?

I'm assuming your father is an alcoholic, if he love alcohol, that's a problem, but that you believe that he loves it more than his family? that's a BIG problem, it may not be true, but if you think he does, then its just as bad. Your father is an alcoholic, its nothing to do with you or your family, its just the way he is.