What is the narcissist goal in ignoring you?

Answer 1

There are a couple of reasons why he does it: You did critizise him or said something true about him that he didn't like it,or he has a New Supply and devalues you,or he wants to hurt you and get your attention...

Answer 2

• He probably wants to call and contact you but absolutely will not crumble and make the first move.

• He has another source of supply and doesn't need you as a source any longer (especially since you have become a source of narcissistic injury - negative supply). There are many types of sources of narcissistic supply - females are only one of them. Career, material possessions, celebrity, friends, even pets - are ample sources of supply.

• Narcissists are very difficult to "know" and to predict - unless you have spent the big part of your life studying them and their victims. That's precisely why they have a constant supply of victims - they are "not fully human" and thus not fully knowable.

• A narcissist would let you ignore them because they do not want you anymore. It is hard for them to actually let go of you forever so expect a phone call etc six months later but act nonchalant - if you let on that you still may love them then they know that they can use you when they feel like it.

• Many reasons. Could be he has found another victim. Could be he wants you to beg and is showing you that you ignoring him does not bother him. Remember these types are about control cause they know they are useless. Could be he is trying to figure out what would bother you and its working.

• The remark above about how he could be hoping you beg him really resonates with my experience. Some of these people play a very hard game and are willing to wait, especially if they have some other source of supply currently going on. And they always have alternative sources ready. The new source may not be in your category; i.e., could be a new activity, and new lover of a different sexual orientation and therefore exciting (also dangerous), involvement in professional goals, etc. Maybe he wants you to be "on the shelf" but still available if/when he wants you. I understand that is often their behavior. Be alert and don't be surprised if he contacts you when you are not expecting it. Have your attitude ready and be primed to slide out of this thing again--he'll be even more hurtful and dangerous next time.

Answer 3

Narcissist people are controlling freaks and want to rule other people. They may simply ignore someone to get back at them for not receiving their ritual narcissist supply. I can't stand narcissists and do not like being around them. They are coning and manipulative people who only view people as objects to be used and then tossed out. Unfortunately, everyone has encountered a narcissist at work and in their family. Narcissists in the family are very difficult to stay away from because as the "old saying" goes, "Blood is thicker than water" That is nonsense because relation or no relation, why should anyone allow someone to disrespect and mistreat them; for the mere fact, that they are their mother, father, brother, sister, etc?. In case no one knew, the hardest knocks come from your own family. Well, at least for me it did. Now, I have moved on and have very limited contact with them. I had a narcissist mother and father and other relatives to deal with for eighteen years of my life. And that was enough for me. I have two children and live in another state far away from them and that is great. Narcissists are not genuine and fake emotions to get what they want. Some may even attempt suicide to spin people back into their web of deceit. And, we, who are normal people often fall for their scams and end up right back into their delusional environment. Not that I advocate suicide, but as for narcissistic people, they surely won't be missed. Anyway, narcissistic people care too much about themselves to commit suicide. If anything, they will drive normal people to do it. I hate narcissists and do not want them around at all, even if they are family because they are the worst to deal with. At least, if they are co-workers or aquaintances, you are not forced to socialize and mingle with them, and could care less if they died tomorrow. Whereas, with family, one feels obligated to put up with nonsense because they are family. Narcissists can go to $%## for all I care! Yes, you heard me; they can go to $%##. They are very problematic and stir up continuous controversy. Have you noticed narcissist tend to be religious and will use religion to get over on people. Look at Jim Jones, who was responsible for hundreds or more peoples' death in the name of religion. Some of the so-called televangelists may Jim Jones their congregation. They have a maniacial way of convincing people to believe and do whatever they tell them to do. Isn't that scary that these narcissists have so much control and power and can bend the rules to benefit them?

Answer 4

They will only get annoyed when you ignored them in the begin ,when they are trying to entice you and seduce you or whe they want something from you,otherwise they really dont care about being ignored,they even prefer that,really. When they are done with you,they dont care if you live or die ,even themselves too.

Answer 5

To them people are just OBJECTS... easier to ignore. The major weakness in the Narcissist is the emotional intelligence. They have none. When we see someone angry, in order to make sense of it we have to use emotional intelligence. We have to empathize. Narcissists cant do it. The rage would seem like a meaningless babble. There is nothing there for them to understand.

Answer 6

Because they are completely consumed with their own needs and how to fulfill those needs.

Because they are completely consumed with their own needs and how to fulfill those needs.

Because they are completely consumed with their own needs and how to fulfill those needs.

Because they are completely consumed with their own needs and how to fulfill those needs.

Answer 7

A narcissist is always focused on their own needs, their own greatness, getting all the attention and they care little about you. Their sole interest is themselves and they need to be the center of attraction in every situation. That's why when you start talking they zone out and ignore you or do something else like checking their emails or playing with their smart phone. You are simply not important unless you are fulfilling a need.

Answer 8

he prolly has sum1 new he's responding to these days

Answer 9

Because they are completely consumed with their own needs and how to fulfill those needs.