check the connector under the dash on the drivers side. leave the windshield washers on and see if it fixes the problem. its a big connector maybe 20 wires.
no blown fuses. and I have changed most all of the relays
Probably
Check your fuses. The wiper fuse may be blown.
Look at the fuses behind the glove box.
Check your fuse panel in your vehicle to see if a fuse is blown. Fuses are very inexpensive and an easy fix! good luck!
Sounds like a blown fuse. Your owner's manual is the best place to locate your fuse box(es) and identify your fuses. Don't rule out that your issue is being caused by a bad bulb too - so check fuses and bulbs. See sources and related links below for bulb information.
It's probably a faulty keyswitch.
check your fuse box for blown fuses
check for blown fuses
Normally its a fuse. Check your owner's manual to find where the fuses are and which one is related to the wipers.
Could be blown fuses, a blown relay, there may be a short in the circuit(s) somewhere... could be a number of reasons.
blown fuses