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A breakup usually involves one or more partner's dissatisfaction with the relationship. It is normal to loose the flame after some time in a relationship and it all depends on how you handle the situation that will determine if you break up or not. At a certain point you may get so comfortable with your partner that you are perhaps too open about your feelings and your partner may feel like they are required to reciprocate more than they like. Your partner may start asking himself/herself questions such as: is this the person I want to be with for the rest of my life? Do I want to do anything else before I settle down with this person? Then your partner will feel suffocated, will try to go out more, and will spend less time with you. In my opinion, they key is not to let yourself get too comfortable (for guys only); don't let your girlfriend get so comfortable that she has to start questioning such things. Have her spend mroe time wondering about you and how much you really love her. For those of you that have already made the mistake of being too open, it's never too late to cut back on your "love output" and let her ponder what a great guy she is loosing. Once her interest level in your beings to rise, your relationship may stabilize again and she will start to love you more.

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