How do you know if you are being used by your husband?

Answer 1

Women are complicated little creatures and since most of us don't even understand ourselves it is highly inevidable that men sure don't understand them. LOL

As you know women up to their 40's or a bit more can go through their periods leaving them cranky, and a "no touch" attitude. Also if the women is in their mid 40's on they can be going through menopause that can cause the same mood swings. This is no reflection of their male counterpart. Don't forget ... life for a married couple can be a drudge at times and often boring leaving each party feeling unappreciated.

If your wife is not as loving as she once was, but is home cooking and cleaning or looking after the kids and is just cool towards you, chances are she needs a break (dinner out or a nice romantic getaway.) If she is out in the evenings (sometimes not coming home) you have a problem!

You should sit down with your wife and ask her how she feels about your marriage. She may be harboring annoyances of every day life, but you need to assure her things will be fine. Time to go on a vacation (without the kids) and have some fun.

If your wife is going out at night you have every right to voice your concerns. If you are working and coming home and the house/apt., is a mess, etc., then you should also voice your concern. Silence is the evil deed here. Communication is everything.

Also, "look unto yourself." When was the last time you told her YOU loved HER. When was the last time you bought her flowers for no reason whatsoever other than the fact you love and appreciate her? When was the last time you had a romantic evening out? Better still, when was the last time you sat down with her and suggested you both work on a plan for a little vacation away?

Good luck Marcy

Answer 2

If you see any signs of being used...get out.

Here's some examples:

If he is Always asking for money, clothes, misc. things..

If he Treats you like crap and then wants to be affectionate towards you.

If he talks down to you and makes you feel unloved.

Just follow your heart...If you have any thoughts or emotions

that he is using you, 9 times out of 10 he is.

Answer 3

If you see the girl talking to you and at the same time looking at your friend trying to get his attention that can be one. -constantly asking for money

-asking about gifts/presents

-asking what your going to buy her

-not seeming in it for 'love'

If a girl doesn't really talk to you or you see her with other guys more often than you see her with you. It's okay if the girl is hanging out with other guys (don't be like a stalker, that will turn her off). If you guys go out and you see that look in her eye and she always smiling and giggling for no reason than she really likes(I mean really likes you). But when you're on a date and there is that weird silence until the phone rings and it's a guy end it then and there because then she's using you! If she get "things" from you all the time without spending time with you, then you're being used. She only comes around or calls when she needs something, then, you're being used. How long have you been with her? If it's been almost a year tell her "I Love You" and see how she responds. If she can't say it back then RUN!

Answer 4

If your girlfriend is a taker ie she's always asking and never offering or giving then DEFINITELY she is a user. Also if you are always led into giving or feel compelled to do so against your will you can be sure that you are being used.

Answer 5

It can be very hard to tell at first if someone is just using you but as time passes it becomes more obvious and his actions will show it. You will probably never have hard proof or evidence, if he is using you, so you will need to trust your intuition and instincts to make up your mind. Ask yourself some questions on how he treats you and if he seems to genuinely love you and care about your well being.

Answer 6

ANSWER:

I'm a woman and a mother of 3 and I could tell you how some woman use others or a man she is involved with. When it comes to money, she will tell you some sad story about someone, it could be one of her family being sick and needed to be hospitalized. Or she might say that she owe someone some money and she doesn't know where to get it. But if its about love or relationship, she might tell some story about what happened to her a long time ago, or how she never had such relationship that last forever. This are some sign when some women do use others for her advantage. Don't get me wrong, man are this way to.

Answer 7

probably if she isn't treating you as well as you are treating well. she also may not be very interested in the things you have to say.

Answer 8

Ask her, if she's an honest person. Hopefully she won't be offended.

shes gonna 99.99% of the time say no

Answer 9

if he is showing of and wont like you