How do you get a girl to trust you?

Answer 1

The only way to get her to trust you is with time. Slowly she will trust you as long as you don't betray her. And stop telling her to trust you, just do things that will actually help her believe that you can be trusted. If she is naturally insecure then this may be a little difficult but if you made her insecure then you have to suffer like she did until she can trust you again.

Answer 2

You can just try to listen to her. By that I mean to really focus on the conversation you two are having and actually appreciating what she's all about. If you are actually interested in what she has to say she will probably trust you. What are her aspirations? What does she enjoy? Discover these things about her.

I hope everything works out well!

Answer 3

I haven't cheated on her. She caught me looking on her phone because I thought she might of been cheating on me, now she says she can't trust me please tell me what i need to do so she'll give me another chance she means alot to me. I do trust her I only checked her phone because she was acting funny with me. I want her to trust me again someone tell me what to do please.

Answer 4

Prove to her constantly that you love her and that she can trust you. Actions speak louder than words and you have to constantly be doing in addition to saying. Show her she's special. Show her you love her. And give her space when she needs it. You would act trustworthy and hope that her trust comes back. Your actions are more important than words in developing trust with her. Remember, you cannot make anyone change their mind--they have to do it themselves.

Answer 5

it takes a long time. you need to earn your trust back by treating her well.

Answer:

Most honest relationships start off with a state of trust - each person trusts the other.

Then either the players continue in a state of trust - neither betraying the other - or one betrays the other.

In the case that there is a betrayal, all the rules change. For their own protection the betrayed can never trust the other person again. Like the old saying "Fool me once - shame on you, fool me again - shame on me." Even if the betrayed party "Forgives and forgets", "Let's bygones be bygones." etc., the doubt is always there and will colour the relationshup.

This is covered by Games Theory in discussing the Prisoner's Dilemma. It sums up that the most advantageous course overall is trust, if that fails, burn the other player to the ground.

Answer 6

There is really no way to get a girl to trust a boy except to give it time. With time, you can prove to the girl that you are trustworthy by being loyal and honest.