What do you do if you think your dad is cheating on your mom?

Answer 1

• When you dad is not home sit down with your mom and let her know you know she is cheating him on him and you disapprove strongly and you feel caught in the middle. Your mom may try to defend herself by saying it is none of your business or that it is between your dad and her. You have a right to communicate the fears you feel inside and it is your business! Have that talk with her.

Answer 2

If you feel brave, confront your dad about his possible cheating. But make sure you know for sure first, you wouldn't want to falsely accuse him of anything. If you feel comfortable talking to your mom then do that. But remember whatever happens, that is their issue not yours so make sure you don't get stuck in the middle if it turns out to be true.

Answer 3

Probably should keep your mouth shut about it. You cannot win in this. The very most you could do is tell your mother you know and let her do whatever she is going to. It is your parents problem or not. Your father may already know and would not like knowing that you know. Hard as it may be for you, stay out of their business. It is their business, not yours.

Answer 4

You are in a tough place, and there is no perfect answer. First would be to talk to another adult who might be able to help like a pastor or counselor.

If you can't do that, maybe you should approach your dad and tell him that his cheating is really impacting you. It probably makes you scared that the marriage will break up, and will certainly distract you from school and activities. Tell him what you want, whether you want him to stop cheating and tell your mom, or whether you want him to divorce, whatever. It's your chance to try and change things.

Lastly, if none of the other things help, get someone in your mom's family or church to talk to her with you. You will need to be able to tell her what you know and how you know. This will probably hurt her, but it will be less than finding out on her own, and she will know that you are on her side.

Answer 5

ANSWER:

What will I do if it's my father who's having an affair? But first, we all have different solution when it comes to our family problem and in my own opinion if this is my problem regarding my own father, I will talk to my father and tell him that I know. I will ask him questions on WHY, then I will suggest to him that he needs to sit with my mother and tell her what his been doing behind her back. I will loose my respect and trust to him, after all he is my father and his hurting my mother. I will make sure that he works his personal problem with my mother, and if he don't I will be the one that will talk to both of them face to face.

If this is my father. But I'm glad my father never did this to my mother, he died loving my mother so much. Who ever you are, always remember God will not give us problem if we can't solve it, so keep your faith and decide. Thanks...

ANOTHER ANSWER :

watch Pretty Little Liars. (ARIA)

Answer 6

you might wanna tell ur mom that shes doing something wrong and will regret it after she realizes it , and then tell her that ur dad is truthful to her and she is breaking his trust !!! Finally tell her that instead of cheating on him she should leave him cuz cheating is gonna hurt even more when he finds out the bad way !! hope i helped :]

Answer 7

ask your father if he is really in love with your mom and why he cheated. good luck

Answer 8

although it is painful to sit there and know, try to mind your business.however, if your mom doesnt know, you should tell her and help her through the difficult time.

Answer 9

Sit your dad down and talk to him. Let him know how his cheating attitude is affecting you negatively. Let him know that he is showing you negative morals.

Answer 10

Children should not have to keep secrets between parents. You should not be in the middle. Tell your dad to confess what he's doing, and that you will not keep his secret.