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Long-Distance Relationships

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No matter how many miles you are apart, it is still the hearts that bind. Ask questions freely here about your long distance relationship and learn to love more despite the distance.
%DETAILS% Answer In most states you would be guilty of a felony. The classification of the felony, would depend on the nature of the accident. For instance if alcohol or some kind of negligence was involved. Regardless, you have committed a crime. Answer How could you give the wrong name &…
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He is immature and trying to prove his manhood. Most cheaters are insecure about the size of their penis and need women to lie (as all women will lie about the mans penis being perfect size to him. He will realize what he had with you one day, but you take your kind heart and save it for a real man…
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Cheating On Your Long Distance Lover: 1st of all, harsh TRUTH: you're not IN love with him. You may love him, but your not IN-LOVE with him. Loving someone and being IN love with them are 2 completely different things and people often confuse this feeling in relationships. For example, you love you…
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This is not a good sign. Possessiveness and control freakery are sometimes precursors of abuse.  Those are all red flags and I wouldn't adventure any further. My ex boyfriend left his previous relationship only 2-3 weeks (unknown to me) before entering into ours. He moved in with me right away…
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I am not sure what "meaningful" means - but many narcissists have long term relationships with their sources of supply (not necessarily with other narcissists).
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A voluntary long-distance relationship is an oxymoron. There is little you can do when you are not there to help her. You may wish to refer her to these articles:  I am sorry to hear you are going through this.There is only one solution to this problem .. you move to where she is. I know this …
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Yes, they do work and it is worth it. My boyfriend and I started off as a long-distance relationship. We were four hours away from each other. The most we'd get to visit one another was probably two times a month. It was very hard! We lasted this way for about two years. Then I decided I needed to m…
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Okay this is a tricky one. Well, I'm guessing if you are fairly old in your 23/30s then you want a serious relationship if its 9/16s I'm guessing its not serious so you have the choice. Go for you loved ones because if your young and they are like best friends you can get them counseling and help th…
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It depends on the people. But if both want to make it work, it will. You can always talk to your boss' and see if you can be stationed near or with each other. A lot of times they will work it out for married couples.   Like it says above, it depends on the people. I happen to work in a job w…
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It's all boils down to how you really feel about her. I just recently moved out of state for college, and my boyfriend didn't want me to leave either. But he loves me enough to respect my choice and be happy for me, rather than try to make me second guess myself. If you care for your girlfriend you …
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A long distance relationship can work only if both people are willing to make it work and want it to work. It will be harder than a "regular" relationship, but it can happen. It all depends on the people.i'm in a long distance relationship too and it has been one year since we both haven't met.it's …
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2-3 Year Long Distance Relationship It can, but if you're looking for a permanent relationsip you should find a way to overcome the distance barrier. Long distance relationships can be troublesome. Read on for more comments about long-distance relationships: It depends on the people. If both are wi…
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I know how you feel. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 years ago and I still cannot get over him. I love him and still want him back. All I can say is if you have found a great love, don't let it go too easily. All I want is my ex back and I know that it will never happen. If you and your partner still…
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Long Distance Commitment It depends on the guy, but if it's long distance, then I wouldn't commit to a relationship. Date other guys, and when you can, date him. Make sure he understands and be completely honest. When you have the opportunity to spend a lot of time together, then you can decide whe…
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Interracial has nothing to do with it. But long distance relationships can be hard. It can work if both people are willing to work at it and really care about each other. And there has to be lots of trust and understanding.I WAS MARRIED 28 YERS WITH A DUTCH GUY,I WAS BRAZILIAN,I MET HIM IN SOUTH AME…
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if u want 2 see her go ahead if u really love her u wuld but first make sure u want 2 im from Texas n i went out with a guy from Florida nd we saw each other n rite now we together still n he lives here now. If you have known her for atleast 5 months and have talked on a daily basis then I would sa…
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How to Make Long Distance Relationship WorkThere are several factors that take part in a "long-distance love relationship" I'm no expert but I am in one. We all know that communication; understanding, compromise, trust, faith, honesty and most of all a lot of patience are the key. Easily said than d…
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If its possible, move closer to them. This shows that you are willing to sacrifice your own lifestyle for them but try to leave it open to whether you return to your home or not, so if it didnt work out, you wouldn't be left looking like a prat! Take a trial run in their area, and see what happens! …
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I would say that it's still possible that he loves you (or not), but he surely doesn't respect you enough to even abstain from carrying on another relationship. If you aren't married or anything, I'd get out of that relationship immediately. I don't see any reason to stay with a man who cheats on yo…
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In short: yes. There are thousands of military couples (one of them my brother and sister-in-law) and they work. If you're considering getting into a military relationship, talk with your partner and understand what you're getting into. They are generally harder than normal because of the stresses. …
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Less contact. Otherwise, there are no ways to know - if you don't want her to know- don't mention it, and she doesn't spend enough time with you to see your body language or changed habits. Oh, and the gut feeling can play funny tricks when on a long-distance relationship, so mind that. If you have…
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There was a post not long ago as to whether long distance relationships worked and the posters that replied opened my eyes and made me realize what a mixed bag this is.Many posters were in long distance relationships and they were working. Others weren't so fortunate.It depends on the person you are…
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Well, the first sign that he might not really mean it is if the first time or only time you hear him saying it is during sex.
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How do you know you don't stand a chance? Of course ask her. The worst is a "no" and we can all get that several times in our lives. Don't go through life regretting you never asked. Don't have a long life of "what ifs." Good luck!   It's really up to you. Ask yourself how you will handle it …
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%REPLIES% Answer I know exactly what you mean, and yeah it can be frustrating. I think you just have to trust him and understand that he loves you, and talk to him about the things that are bothering you. You definitely shouldn't ask him to stop seeing those friends, but instead try to deal wit…
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Get real shes taken and you need to find someone who actually wants you. I think celebrities are hot but they are married and live in Hollywood...should I pursue it LOL Get a life. Walk away, you don't want to destroy someone's relationship. You wouldn't want it to happen to yourself either. If you'…
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%REPLIES% Answer Because the man is selfish, self-centered and on an ego trip. He wants his cake and eat it too. Not only that he hasn't been honest to this woman from the beginning. When two people meet and fall in love it is up to both of them to be as honest as possible about important …
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You will never know 100%. It's impossible. Distance can be hard on a relationship.A long-distance relationship when it comes to war and your mate is away fighting for his country is a lot different than just someone living in another country or State.Personally, I stayed away from long-distant relat…
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It is impossible to know whether someone loves you or not. Here is some advice from Wiki s contributors on how to find out if a girl likes you:If they stop and look at you ... if they look at you a lot ... if they laugh at your jokes ... if they giggle and act like drunk crazy girls.Here's some help…
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If she only lives 6 hours away either drive, take a bus or a train, plane, pony express (whatever) and get engaged to her face-to-face!!!! This is a very big moment in a young woman's life so don't disappoint her. DON'T do it over the phone as even you will lose that very precious moment of asking f…
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Although all of the following are true, not all will apply to everyone. For Guys: She smiles at you... a lot. You catch her looking at you, and then she quickly looks away when you see her. She blushes around you. She laughs at almost everything you say. She drops things by your desk so you can pick…
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Cut it off! He is married. If he really has feelings for you he will get divorced and come back to you. But even then ge left you and got married to someone else. Ultimately the decision is yours.
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Answer It depends on how strong your relationship was when you were together. There are couples who do survive this. If you trust each other now, there is no reason this relationship can't continue. The key is to be in contact every couple of days for 2 - 3 weeks, then every 5 - 6 days. Never qui…
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no their notreally together and teddy long can go to raw  no their notreally together and teddy long can go to raw  yer they met on the road somewhere and they werent mean tto put their true life affair in the wwe  Ya they had a one night stand in real life, and got Matt Hardy fire…
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I do believe that it is possible to fall in love after only a couple of months because my mother and father only dated for two months, fell madly in love and got engaged and 27 years later they are still together and in love. Now, I think that they never let divorce be an option and when they had ar…
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Well definatley be confiddent, that can be really attractive in a guy. When you ask her, don't just be like "wana be my girlfriend ?" be cute about it, but NOT obsessive. I hate it when guys stalk a girl around which they like. It shows they have no self boundries and its just extremley annoying. Do…
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think of this , if you start doubting then forever you will doubt. this may lead to an argument . what if you're just being paranoid? and really your guy doesnt do anything, do you think it may be possible for him to do such thing since you're already accussing him the things that really never c…
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A very low percentage of long distance relationships work out and that includes by email or even phoning each other. Humans need to be in physical contact once in awhile. How on earth can a person tell what another is thinking if they can't see their facial expressions or body language. We all l…
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It's hard to have any kind of relationship with a person if you are only talking to them over email. Sure you might have great conversation with that one, but you need more than that to keep a relationship going. Different countries is a very long distance to have a relationship, not that it's impos…
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she says she loves me, and she would never cheat on me. But! she talks to him on the phone more than she talks to me, she's done more things for him. But swears they are just BEST friends.
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Answer Recently my girlfriend broke up with me for her ex from two years ago. I tried to just let her go, but she still wants to talk to me. And, I don't want to let her go, I want to win her back. The guy is a jerk I can already tell. She tells me to call her and if he's not there it's fine and …
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Once in a while you have got to think about yourself and love is one of the parts of life in which you should. If you were to be with the person that needs you then it would mean for you to be unhappy. However if you were with ther person you love it means this person and you will both be happy toge…
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It is unfortunate that an ex would do this to you and your children. All you can do is keep trying without being overbearing. Send cards, letters, care packages with cookies. Someday, hopefully sooner than later, they will come around and figure out that you are not as bad as they were taught. Kids …
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Your falling in love when your heart races when you see his number on your phone, when he makes you smile every waking moment, when all you do is laugh and smile when he talks to you, when he makes you happy, when no matter what he tells you about him, you want to know more. That's when your falling…
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Answer Over protection of their cell phone and other personal items like wallets or purses. Unexpected or unexplained nights away, at 'Friends'. Accusing YOU of being unfaithful. If they can do it, they will presume you could too. If you're a woman, follow your gut instinct. Answer IF SINGLE:…
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if u r in a relationship and want to tlk to ur gf then start with saying hi on a sticky note than let the conversation flow. wen u feel comfortable with that then you should start tlking to her in person. start with hi. or wutz up. or maybe even how was ur nite. if u love this person start an "argum…
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Absolutely not! He wants his cake and eat it too. If he wants freedom so be it, but hurting someone like yourself (and heaven knows how many other women he's also hurt) means this guy is simply a jerk with the morals of an alley cat. Every woman should have a policy of "I don't share my man!" and m…
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Answer It all depends on what you did. If you cheated what you need to do is admit your wrong and give her some space and time for a couple of months and then go to her with a new outlook and attitude about the relationship and her and make her understand that your going to change and make thing…
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I might not know you but every relationship it worth it....i know I'm dating a guy right now and he lives 45 minutes away he don't even go to my school...heres what you do...talk every day on the phone...set up days during the week and weekend to see him and if he REALLY cares everything will work o…
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well i think they can work if you want them to! me and my boyfriend are having a long distance relationship i am still in high schoool and he is in his first year of college even though he is only a few hours away does not mean i can go see him whenever i want to! i have to stay here and worry about…
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him fading away or goes out a lot without telling you anything about where he's going.....but ask him before you do something that could ruin the relationship.....and if you still dont believe him then break up cuz a true gf would trust her boyfriend....but its ok to be a little cautious
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If both of you are available, try asking this person out on a date. Start over and see where it goes from there. If one or both of you is involved in a relationship, then you are out of luck. Just be friends.I would ask them out if they are single. Keep in mind that sometimes when we run into ex's f…
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i was in a long distance relationship for 8 months with my boyfriend. We broke up because he cheated and in anger i dated someone else and we got back together not long ago...so yes it is possible. but it depends on how strong each of you feel. i don't think so she don't want u   Well you ha…
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No, this has never been proven. Answer While it's never been proven, I've heard many people speak of it happening to them. If two people are very close whether it be through friendship, love, or whatever they sometimes will do this sort of thing. It would be maybe like sometimes you are thinking of…
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You realize you deserve more respect and better treatment than he gave you and start looking for an honest person with values to share your time with.
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We don't have the ability or the right to control someone else. You can't "get him back" if he has moved on. Sometimes the best we can do is to learn from our mistakes and live your life, trying to avoid our past mistakes. patience and keep communication going. there is no fail-proof method but if i…
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Not a Bad LoverYou ask her!If its a long term relationship and you feel you cant ask that question then shes not the only one with a problem don't you think.If you trully love and trust oneanother there shouldn't be anything you cant talk over.Don't take the blame your probably not a bad lover you j…
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I'm sure it can, but that's very difficult! I've been in a long distance relationship for a year now and we live 3 hours apart. It's still very hard, but possible
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What happened prior to two months ago? Perhaps she still holds a grudge for what you did prior to the last two months. Or perhaps it's a case of "familiarity breeds contempt." It could be that at some level she loves you but really doesn't enjoy your company any longer. In other words, you ann…
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2 help u all with this question... Is the key right...No...wrong...Figure it out urself...KAKA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You be with that person and never give a shiz what people say!Ok fine I'll help!!You tell the person that ur falling in love with that you guys can not be together no matter how hard it is no…
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Answer I have no idea why you are having any relationship with your ex. "Ex" means it's over! You should be moving on with your own life. Neither of you are attached to the other so she can go out with whoever she wants and kiss whoever she wants, but that also applies to you... YEah I agree bro …
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It Might or Might Not Be True It might be true, but it may not be true. I think it's easy to feel a intense attraction to someone you meet online. It can also fizzle out quickly upon meeting, because the romantic partner you have built up in your mind is not the same individual you meet in the fles…
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Answer * Honey, all I had to read was long distance, and I knew my input. THEY DON'T WORK OUT. Tell him you are going to see other people, because he already is. If the two of you are meant to be, you'd be living in the same city. Sounds like he walks all over you, and you're too good for that ho…
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It's not that simple... We were dating for 3 years and started as the very best of friends. I am 21 and she is 17. We have since spent every day together and even when I moved away for college...we still talked daily and made the efforts to see each other. We had some issues between us (jealousy mos…
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Answer As much as you may hear that long-distance relationships work it's only 1% that do. People need to see each other to feel, touch and look into each other's eyes (the windows of your soul.) The good old fashion way of actually physically meeting the opposite sex is the best way to go and ev…
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Not usually. You can't kiss them or really talk to them or hold them. However, if you are going somewhere for a short period of time or if you or the other or both of you are really dedicated, then your relationship might work. But if you are going away for a long time, a few months or more than 1 a…
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You cry and remember the good times intilyy uo run out of all of the memories of yall together. then you get up, get on, and get over it! another way is to find someone else. yes if you were really close with the guy this might be really hard but you have to stop thinking about him/her the best way…
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Either that, or he's just full of it, not interested and trying to let you down easy while keeping you in the background in case something else doesn;t work out. It means you give him space and take some of your own. Let him become the man you need and want him to be on his own. Use the time apart …
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Answer Anything dealing with men is mindless because they are complicated. The heart only grows fonder if it has fondness to begin with for the absent one. Out of sight/mind only works if there are no feelings left. Basically if you have love for this individual then either way you will find it h…
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move on,you'll find new interest too. WHAT! hey, i am in this situation right now, and you know what? don't give up on each other. yeah, both of you might have other relationships but that can't be helped. i mean, life would be so boring if the you didn't like someone you could see almost everyday.…
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It costs $.75 to mail a letter but if you wish to mail a letter in an envolope with a small package in it, it costs $1.00.
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Answer Love it a choice and I choose to love her. Some times wre are feelings and sometimes there aren't any feelings, but I love her because I chose to one day and I choose to every day from that time on.
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What You Should Do You can either just contact him via email and post and telephone and visit whenever possible or you accept that it is impossible to hold a long distance relationship and move on. Either way is going to be hard and you need to realise that you can't see each other all the time. …
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That's a question only the protagonist can answer. Some people get engaged after five dates. Others take five years. There is no right or wrong answer. -----------------------------------x-----------------------------x------------------------------ yes indeed ...i think that it depends upon the p…
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Well it depends when he's ready You have to wait until he's interested this can take possibly a year sence girls mature faster than boys
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Answer Know whether you love her or not before you break up because you might break up the if you find you actually love her then you might have lost her forever! - You're my boyfriend aren't you? Don't ask wikianswers if you should break up with me! Look inside your heart and ask yourself how …
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If he was ready to kiss you then he would.
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first of all, if you don't love the person, get yourself out now. honestly. long-distance relationships are heart-wrenching. when you see a couple holding hands, it hurts. when you see a couple kissing, it hurts.but if you love your partner, then you can make it work. trust me ;]when you see that co…
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yes they do i found my girlfriend online and its been 4 years now and were still together so go on :) have fun they typicaly do not work out thethe few lucky ones do but its unlikley trust me my gf moved 2000 miles away and withing a year we broke up i mstill getting over it
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oh come on... seriously?just walk up to her and say; 'hey. u wanna go out with me?'and dont joke around with it, like saying stuff like;'hey, u wanna go out...side?'its not funny, but it'd probably hurt her heart...whether she likes u or notOR use any of those pick-up linesnot many girls like that, …
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Before the popularity of internet dating, long-distance relationships were not as common but were certainly in existence and were a successful way of keeping a relationship flourishing over distance. But we've come a long way from the time the only communication between long distance lovers was tele…
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well realy theres no way to make it work ive tried and tried but they just get u all messed up and stuff like that but hey im not telling u not to try it might work for u   get closer   ok if you're tryin to do long distance the best way is to communicate, like go on skype or get yahoo…
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Hey what's up? Ask him to hang out with you and your friend. Don't ask him just you and him because that will make him feel awkward. For example,so my friends and I are gonna catch a movie do you wanna come with us? Then if he does he will probably get the picture but at the end of whatever your'e …
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Men look at women because it is his nature to do so. It's sad to say but everything doesn't have to be attached to sex or wanting a piece. Why do they make cars flashy looking or why do women dress nice ? Isn't it to look attractive in the first place. I know when I get dressed up , I want to look n…
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You can't make him come back to you and it isn't fair of him to keep telling you he still loves you. Make a clean break here and tell him that he can't keep doing this. He needs to make a choice, ask him outright if he wants you back if he says no or he doesn't know then that it. Move on, if you tak…
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You can't make someone fall in love you, it will happen if you're right together, give it time, he has to love you from afar and this could be difficult for him. Just be honest and one day you'll know if he loves you. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- One way t…
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Saying "I Love You" Well if you love him back say "I love you, too." If you are unsure of your feelings just use the age old copout and say "you too." You are not being specific and you are given time to sort things out in your head. I disagree with saying "you, too." By saying that, you are lea…
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depends on how bad you screwed up. if it was bad, there really is no way to win her back, but if it was something simple, just make sure she knows how much you really do love her. send her a beautiful bouquet of flowers with a note on it telling her how much you love her.
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Answer #1:I'm a Scorpio and my boyfriends a Taurus and we live apart. our relationship started long distance but now we have keys to each others homes and see each other regularly. The distance did cause some suspicion on my part because I diddn't know what he was up to and we had some huge fights b…
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If you are a Taurus born April 20-24 you are an Aries-Taurus cusp. You will do well in love relationships with Scorpio born Oct 23-25 or Nov 3-18 & have great friendships with those born Oct 26-Nov 2 or Nov 12-21. If you were born April 25-May 2 Love is good with those born Oct 26-Nov 2, marria…
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It could it just depends on how commited you both are to one another, if you trust one another and have intentions of a future together.
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Some do and some don't. Long distant relationships are basically about trust and love, try as much contact as you can if you're in one, try texting, calling, meeting as much as possible.
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rent a stripping pole and strip for himhave really good sex with him
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When you ask "long distance cheating" are you planning to do it or you wanted to know if its going to work? It depends with the circumstances. It doesn't matter if its a long distance, you still going to make a big mistake. Have you thought the people that you might hurt because all you wanted is to…
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Yes. Some women may feel like their FtM partners are more sensitive to their needs and preferences as women while still being masculine. Others may find FtM partners less physically threatening than cismen, and still others like the "support role" of having a partner going through medical and psych…
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Go right up to her and ask her out. Don't act like you're cool or uninterested or anything you're not. Girls hate that and can see right through it. Just make it easy for both of you and ask her to a movie or coffee. If she says no (which I doubt) than she's not the right girl for you anyway. And do…
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I strongly disagree with the last answer. It all depends on the how much you love that person. And how much he loves you. If you both have strong feelings for each other then there is a chance you will workout. And good luck getting him back! Answer Long distance relationships seldom work ou…
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If he treats you like a friend, he is interested If you're his best friend, he probably has a crush on you. If you're his best friend and he says he loves you, he means it.
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Marriage is a special intimidating time and should not be taken lightly.. you should try to slow down a little and talk to him about him slowly. Many men aren't sure if there ready to have to support a family and fully care for someone and some women feel the same. you may have just rushed to fast i…
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