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Hi, Lisa,
Think of it as a prospective credit transaction. If he believes that an investment in you will pay off sometime in the future (in other words, that one day you will again become a source of narcissistic supply) - he may give you something.
If he believes that he stands to lose more than he stands to gain - for instance, if you threaten him with effective legal measures - he may give you something.
But if you repesent no reward and no punishment - why would he depart from his hard-earned money?  
The best way is to have it in writing. My ex-fiancee owes me money and I will have to take him to small claims court.
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