What would you like to do?
Think of it as a prospective credit transaction. If he believes that an investment in you will pay off sometime in the future (in other words, that one day you will again become a source of narcissistic supply) - he may give you something.
If he believes that he stands to lose more than he stands to gain - for instance, if you threaten him with effective legal measures - he may give you something.
But if you repesent no reward and no punishment - why would he depart from his hard-earned money?
The best way is to have it in writing. My ex-fiancee owes me money and I will have to take him to small claims court.
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For as long as they can. Narcissists need people. They have to have someone to envy them; agree with them; think they are they greatest thing in the world and so on. You a…re pretty much in their world to be what they need you to be not what you are. They only act of kindness you get is when they notice you have had about enough of them and since they don't want someone to leave their life they throw you something to make you feel special for a bit; then its back to them. And if you do decided to leave well its YOUR loss of course.
Yes, their lives are cluttered with themselves to the point where friends are unimportant. Answer: Many narcissists are extroverted and superficially charming…. These traits tend to attract admirers, with whom the narcissist may maintain a shallow relationship, as long as the admirer has recognizably desirable traits (attractiveness, high status, etc.) and continues to feed his or her narcissistic supply. People who challenge the narcissist's brittle self-esteem or fail to inflate his/her ego are quickly discarded. Outside the public eye, narcissists can be volatile, over-sensitive, demanding, demeaning, vindictive, manipulative and completely oblivious to the feelings of others. For this reason, their longest-lasting (and least valued) relationships are usually with people who have low self-esteem. Healthier people tend to abandon the narcissist once they realize he or she is incapable of, and uninterested in, a reciprocal relationship. Narcissists' self-centered perspective prevents them from developing real friendships.
Answer Everyone in life keeps secrets, don't let anyone ever tell you that they don't keep secrets sick people included. Narcissists are sick people, they need help… and they are known to be liars as well so watch your step around this person and always remember, what they tell you may not be the exact truth.
Does your partner who is a narcissist understand that he is abusing you emotionally and espesially financially?
I wanted to ask the same question, but after reading yours it is a little clearer. From my experience with my Narcissist partner he knows even though he pretends not to. When …we do anything or go anywhere I pay. He's always broke he says but is very sorry I have to pay. When he would go pick something up for me at the store with my credit card he would stop and fill up his truck with gas and not tell me. When he bought me an engagement ring but ask could he put it on my ccard because he had no credit I was dumb enough to say yes and pretend to be happy. When payment came due he was always broke..I had to make. When I would finally tell him how it hurt my feeling to make my own engagement ring payment when he told me how broke he was and couldn't make it but same day get sterio system installed in his truck he made me feel so bad I just hung my head. He works hard for his money he says and he deserved something for himself.
Keep them in love? Narccists dont love anyone but themselves. Trust me I know. U can't keep them in love they never loved u to begin with. And the harder u try the worse they'…ll treat u.
I am assuming you are still with this person? If you are you will never recover. You must leave this person for good. Only then can you slowly rebuild your life again. I… wish you luck and hope you become a healthy person again after dealing with this type of monster.
By exposing them ,showing them you know what their true face is and going No Contact.
The details of the Gosselin divorce are a private matter and have not been made public at this time.
Narcissists just plain don't care if they're bothering someone, so there's not really anything you can do to make your mother stop. That's why many people who know a narciss…ist decide to just get away (this is called "no contact", or NC). By staying away from narcissists, you can guarantee they won't bother you. Some of them try to pester you, etc., for a time, but if you don't give in and talk to them, they eventually give up. If you Google things like "How to go no contact with a narcissist", you'll find help. There are also good sites for helping you and your sister with your mother, like the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers site and Light's House, which is for adult children of toxic and difficult parents. As long as you have contact with her, she's GOING to annoy and upset you. That's because narcissists are always the ones in control, or else. So breaking it off is really the only way to avoid her emotional abuse.
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