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How do you get a narcissist to keep to a financial agreement?
Think of it as a prospective credit transaction. If he believes that an investment in you will pay off sometime in the future (in other words, that one day you will again become a source of narcissistic supply) - he may give you something.
If he believes that he stands to lose more than he stands to gain - for instance, if you threaten him with effective legal measures - he may give you something.
But if you repesent no reward and no punishment - why would he depart from his hard-earned money?
The best way is to have it in writing. My ex-fiancee owes me money and I will have to take him to small claims court.
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For as long as they can. Narcissists need people. They have to have someone to envy them; agree with them; think they are they greatest thing in the world and so on. You a…re pretty much in their world to be what they need you to be not what you are. They only act of kindness you get is when they notice you have had about enough of them and since they don't want someone to leave their life they throw you something to make you feel special for a bit; then its back to them. And if you do decided to leave well its YOUR loss of course.
Answer Everyone in life keeps secrets, don't let anyone ever tell you that they don't keep secrets sick people included. Narcissists are sick people, they need help… and they are known to be liars as well so watch your step around this person and always remember, what they tell you may not be the exact truth.
He mistakes your kindness for weakness, and loses all respect for you (if he ever had any in the first place)
Keep them in love? Narccists dont love anyone but themselves. Trust me I know. U can't keep them in love they never loved u to begin with. And the harder u try the worse they'…ll treat u.
Narcissists need to keep their various relationships and acquaintances separate from each other so that the various groups or individuals cannot get together and"compare" note…s since the life of a narcissist is based on lies, illusions and delusions. This is essential to the narcissist because they lie so much about everything and because they create false "realities" in order to impress others.
Yes, their lives are cluttered with themselves to the point where friends are unimportant. Answer: Many narcissists are extroverted and superficially charming…. These traits tend to attract admirers, with whom the narcissist may maintain a shallow relationship, as long as the admirer has recognizably desirable traits (attractiveness, high status, etc.) and continues to feed his or her narcissistic supply. People who challenge the narcissist's brittle self-esteem or fail to inflate his/her ego are quickly discarded. Outside the public eye, narcissists can be volatile, over-sensitive, demanding, demeaning, vindictive, manipulative and completely oblivious to the feelings of others. For this reason, their longest-lasting (and least valued) relationships are usually with people who have low self-esteem. Healthier people tend to abandon the narcissist once they realize he or she is incapable of, and uninterested in, a reciprocal relationship. Narcissists' self-centered perspective prevents them from developing real friendships.
Answer How do you keep children safe, run away! Get the N out of their lives. Given the choice of THAT father and NO father...NO father wins everytime. My… ex N was so mean to his children and his wife didn't have a clue. I feel sorry for their family. He duped me. I didn't know he was married until I fell in love and then it was a mess trying to pry myself out of the situation. I've since severed all ties but there still is a part of me that wonders whether he and his wife are together now or if he's on to his next thing and they are still getting a divorce. I'm so thankful that I've lived for 37 years on this planet and have been involved only once with an N. run away, run away, run away, your kids will be better off!
Control ! They all do this. Institute NO CONTACT Answer Yep. It's all about control with narcissist people. Get rid of him! Tell him no. They hate that wor…d and he will most likely try even harder but stand your ground and he will eventually give up. It make take a while but he will eventually give up. Hopefully.
By exposing them ,showing them you know what their true face is and going No Contact.
So that people will allow you to have credit cards and other cards that you would find harder to have if you have bad credit, you could even become black listed which means yo…u will not be able to have a credit card or anything like that again. It also helps you in jobs to do with financial work.Hope this helps.. : )
Any financial institution keeps some money on hand, maybe 5-10 percent of what is invested with them. Most of it is just a book keeping entry. It is loaned out to other custom…ers, invested in things in order to make the bank money so that it can operate and pay you interest.
Does your partner who is a narcissist understand that he is abusing you emotionally and espesially financially?
I wanted to ask the same question, but after reading yours it is a little clearer. From my experience with my Narcissist partner he knows even though he pretends not to. When …we do anything or go anywhere I pay. He's always broke he says but is very sorry I have to pay. When he would go pick something up for me at the store with my credit card he would stop and fill up his truck with gas and not tell me. When he bought me an engagement ring but ask could he put it on my ccard because he had no credit I was dumb enough to say yes and pretend to be happy. When payment came due he was always broke..I had to make. When I would finally tell him how it hurt my feeling to make my own engagement ring payment when he told me how broke he was and couldn't make it but same day get sterio system installed in his truck he made me feel so bad I just hung my head. He works hard for his money he says and he deserved something for himself.
I am assuming you are still with this person? If you are you will never recover. You must leave this person for good. Only then can you slowly rebuild your life again. I… wish you luck and hope you become a healthy person again after dealing with this type of monster.
It is required by the FASB and the government. It is your legal obligation.