I went through breast cancer with a narcissist and I wouldn't recommend it. He was totally shocked when I was diagnosed and wrote a very sweet blog but I realized later that he felt that this had happened to him. He was totally unempathetic in private but played the role of the stricken husband at the oncology clinic. He tired of it very quickly and began to go running instead of going with me to my chemotherapy appointments.
Please take care of yourself and get a support network that can help you out. I had lots of support from everyone except my spouse. He just couldn't deal with it and went on a ski trip during my last treatment. He was verbally abusive to me when I was very weak and sick, telling me to "go get a job."
After my surgery, he became very cold and told me that I needed to "get off of my butt and exercise." I think that my illness made him realize that I wasn't invincible, which to a narcissist is horrible, because that reflects their own mortality, which they don't want to face. I asked him to move out last January and I have full custody of our children because luckily we had a judge in court who could see through his slick demeanor.
Death.
Not really. It is the conquest that matters - it buttresses and regulates the somatic narcissist's labile emotions and volatile sense of self-worth.
All narcissists constantly switch between somatic and cerebral, inverted ad classic.
Not normally, but it usually depends on in which way you dump them
Somatoform disorder is a disorder that makes people perceive pain as if they have a physical injury or illness, thus resulting in a somatic behavior.
is more sexual including intercourse,various deviant interests, but eventually the activity will diminish unless with multiple reationships
Somatic delusions involve the belief that something is physically wrong with the individual. The delusion may involve a medical condition or illness or a perceived deformity
they will act upset... but they will just go find someone else.
A somatic narcissist is someone who feels superior to others in relation to their body. So they think they are sexy or hot. A cerebral narcissist is someone who feels superior to other in relation to their mind. They see themselves as intellectually superior to others. Traditionally, males are more likely to be cerebral narcissists, while females are more likely to be somatic narcissists. However, when dealing with LGBT persons, these labels do not always line up along gender lines so neatly.
Some Sources of Supply are ideal (from the narcissist's point of view): sufficiently intelligent, sufficiently gullible, submissive, reasonably (but not overly) inferior to the narcissist, in possession of a good memory (with which to regulate the flow of Narcissistic Supply), available but not imposing, not explicitly or overtly manipulative, interchangeable (not indispensable), not demanding (a fatalist to a degree), attractive (if the narcissist is somatic).
Some Sources of Supply are ideal (from the narcissist's point of view): sufficiently intelligent, sufficiently gullible, submissive, reasonably (but not overly) inferior to the narcissist, in possession of a good memory (with which to regulate the flow of Narcissistic Supply), available but not imposing, not explicitly or overtly manipulative, interchangeable (not indispensable), not demanding (a fatalist to a degree), attractive (if the narcissist is somatic).
The Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD) is a separate mental health disorder. I assume, therefore, that you are referring to the SOMATIC female narcissist. She derives her sense of self-worth from her sexual conquests. And, yes, she is enraged by rejection.