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What are the signs that your girlfriend has emotional problems if you are in a long distance relationship?
There has been talk in difference posts of long distance relationships making it and some don't. My own opinion is it's a risk. Why? Because unless you can physically see each… other on occasion and get to know one another then it just doesn't work. The percentages of it working are extremely low. You can't make a judgment call on your girlfriend from a distance. Perhaps there are things going on in her life and she feels alone and depressed. If she means so much to you, and you are this worried then you should make the best attempt you can to go visit with her and see what is going on. Here are some serious signs: Never seeing the good in anything you discuss Putting down people constantly Lethargy (not wanting to talk much) "Speed talking" talking rapidly and not making sense Threats of suicide or threats such as: I'm not good for anything in this worldetc. Crying because she misses you is OK, but constant crying and begging is a sign of fear and loneliness. If you care about this girl (and it sounds like you do) then hitch a ride, take a bus, borrow a friends car, but get there! This is the only way you will know for sure if this girl is truly unstable or just plain lonely for you. We all need someone in our lives. By the way, be sure you're pure as the driven snow and you've been true to her. I think there is a little more to this story. Either she is overly jealous and feels so insecure that you are dating other women, or you are! Good luckMarcy
If you're having trust issues perhaps a long distance relationship is not for you and your girlfriend. Talk to her candidly about your feelings and what is going on. If she is… not mature enough to commit or you are not confident enough in who you are to accept what she says, perhaps you should move on. A::She wont call when she tells you she will or wont come online. Even if she does call she will seem distant and busy or preoccupied. Her music taste will change and she will ask you what you think of certain artists you never knew she liked. One of the best way to check is if she has a profile on some thing like facebook or my space. Read her walls to find out what her firends talk about and you might get a clue. One other way is for you to disappear for a few days. Like don't call as much and pretend to be busy. This will show if she actually cares about you and misses you. If you get a negative vibe from her it doesn't mean she is cheating with you it could also mean she might not want to be with you. So cut your losses and just let it go.
Can you win back your ex-girlfriend from a long-distance relationship even if she has a new boyfriend?
i was in a long distance relationship for 8 months with my boyfriend. We broke up because he cheated and in anger i dated someone else and we got back together not long ago...…so yes it is possible. but it depends on how strong each of you feel. i don't think so she don't want u Well you have to ask yourself how long has it been since you broke up, how long were you together and why did you break up in the first place. Does she love you, She mustn't if she has a new boy friend. As hard as it maybe you have to try and move on and forget about this person. I know what its like, I'm going through the same thing, me and my ex have been finished nearly 6 months and haven't spoken since. I know she doesn't love me, it was hard to take but I grieved the relationship and built my self up and started again. I am now dating again (nothing serious) and meeting new people and focusing on myself. You have to have a relationship with yourself. It will take time to heal your broken heart and bruised ego. Trust me its not the be all and end all even if it feels like that right now. I often think about my ex, infact I think about her every day and wish things could have been different, but I cant get her back, so I have to accept that shes gone for good. Good luck! God Bless! and it will work out for you in the long run you will see. I don't want to give you false hope matey, because it's very unlikely that you'll get her back. My suggestion is this. Try and get over her. If she misses you too and feels the same way, then maybe it'll be enough to make this relationship she's in fall down and make her think of you. It has worked before. Sadly I was the guy that she left to go back to the long distance relationship guy with - but it's possible and I wish you every luck with your quest. Remember - it's important to at least look like you've moved on. These people arn't very optimistic. Ok, I managed to win back my ex in a long distance relationship (even though I decided to blow her off at the last moment), it just took a long ammount of time. What I did was, I remained a good person and I didn't fret when she left me, I was hard enough not to appear desperate but I also managed to let her know that she was hurting me. We both managed to stay friends and she would talk about how she would date random men and women. I didn't say anything at first but then later, I talked to her about how bad I felt for knowing that I was the one that did that to her. She looked back and got a little sad. Well, as time grew on, she would grow back onto me because she would see that I am still a nice guy, but at the same time, she remembered how I wrote her poems, told her what I love about her every day, and how I always treated her like a god. She sooned coudln't find that in anybody else so she eventually started looking back at me. What really did her in, was when I met my current girlfriend. Once she saw me with another woman and how I made her happy and did those things with her instead of my ex, she really reflected on how much she missed that. On eday, she brought me into her room and sat me down, asking me to go back with her because it was a big mistake for her to let me go. How ever, I fell in love with my new girlfriend, so I politely told her that I'm not going to dump Ashley. Well, then my ex told me to cheat and I still wouldn't listen and she really regrets giving me up but that's just how it is. Anyways, I hope that you can get an understanding from this, I'm sorry if this didn't really help. Look man the situation your in sucks i know, I've been through the same stough. Me and my ex where dating for like 9 months, then she had to move. we tryed the long distance, i cheated after a couple months of that, big mistake i know, but distance causes physical loneliness. anyways this was over 4 years ago, and all though ive been in many relationships since then, ive never felt as strong for anyone else. all you can do is hope that u guys might see each other again and rekindle in the future, but don't dwell on it to much, cause the girl you thought u loved so much could be an entirely diffrent person by the time you see her again.
If you are a Taurus born April 20-24 you are an Aries-Taurus cusp. You will do well in love relationships with Scorpio born Oct 23-25 or Nov 3-18 & have great friendships with… those born Oct 26-Nov 2 or Nov 12-21. If you were born April 25-May 2 Love is good with those born Oct 26-Nov 2, marriage will work with those born Nov 3-11, friendships are great with those born Nov 10-21 & you will work well with those born Nov 12-18. If you were born May 3-10 you would do well in a marriage with someone born Nov 19-21, make great friends with those born Nov 3-11, get along well with family members born Oct 26 -Nov 2, or work well with those born Nov 12-18. If your birthday falls between May 11-18 you will do well in love with someone born Nov 19-21, have a good marriage with one born Oct 26-Nov 2 and work well with those born Nov 3-11. If you were born May 19-24, Marriage will work out with a Scorpio born Nov 12-18, friendships are good with those born Oct 23-25 & Nov 3-11, & you will work well with those born Oct 26-Nov 2. Here's the final bit of advice, a Scorpio in love has some pretty specific expectations, if you can supply some or most of those, a long-distance relationship is not insurmountable. She needs absolute faithfulness & loyalty, that doesn't just mean not seeing others when she isn't there but being 100% on her team. She needs to know she is your one & only. She will want a demonstrative love, not just when you are together, you'll need to let her know how you feel by showing her. Never forget a birthday, anniversary or let a big day for her (exam at college, promotion at work, etc.) go by without a call, a card or a small gift. It isn't the size of the gift, it is the acknowledgement that she is important to you that counts here. Although she does not require romantic demonstration she does need tenderness, so forget the dozens of roses and think more about her personally. If she is living some place cold, fuzzy slippers to keep her toes warm, or a GPS for her new car so she never gets lost. Use your imagination and remember your lady, even if she doesn't say it needs to know you realise just how lucky you are to be a part of her life and love.
You can never get her on the phone, she doesn't return your messages , strange men answer her phone. Theses are all good indicators she is drifting away , but not positive pro…of. You guys need to talk. Long-distance relationships are notoriously hard to maintain. Be honest and kind to each other.
What do you do if you really like a guy who has a girlfriend but their relationship is long distance?
Long distance relationship or not. It's still a relationship. Respect that fact. If you care for this guy, you'll be his friend and leave it alone or support it.
What do you think he's been doing when your not their! Hes is not sitting around waiting for you to come around on the weakends
Show her, Tell her, Ur plans for both of u. prove it. its not that hard. be real, no secrets.
What will you do if You are in a long distance relationship and your boyfriend have a girlfriend in your country?
Long distance relationships are based on commitment and trust, without it you've got nothing. Break up with the jerk. Or talk to him about what you know and straighten things …out. Please don't fall for empty promises, you'll only feel like you wasted your time in the end.
I feel I have to elaborate, and this was the only way to do so. We were together a year, and never had any fidelity problems, but as soon as we became 'long distance' we had d…iscussions of breaking up or staying together. We decided to stay together, but one week later, she got drunk at a party and made out with a random guy. I talked to her a couple times during the night too, but it must have happened in between. She says she just got caught up in the moment and not knowing when she would see me again. She told me the very next day, and has cried and apologized repeatedly. She is not in contact with the guy. She says it was a big wake up call that she doesn't want to ever lose me, and is determined to get back together with me. We are talking every day and trying to move on, but it is really hard to get the image of it out of my head. I keep picturing her doing it. I keep thinking of her telling me she would never cheat on me, and what I would have done in that situation. I never would have let it happen in a million years, so it is really hard to forgive, but I love her and she has been so good to me prior to this. What are your thoughts on this situation?
If you have a girlfriend in a long distance relationship and you cheated on her how can you make her to trust you again?
There is nothing you can do. If you do that then you're F-ed......unless she has cheated on you before then you're just in a messed up relationship. Good Luck ~OR~ If you …really care about her and want to start earning her trust back you should first start by going to see her in person. You will have to make her see that you really care for her, want her back and prove to her that it will never happen again; basically allow her to give you one more chance to not mess up. You should not let anything get in the way of you trying to get her back, no obstacles, just go! -_-. Keep trying and don't give up, but do not make her so mad where she would call the cops on you. She will push back. Check yourself and see what you did wrong before hand: 1. Look at yourself and what you did 2. Do you care about what you did 3. Do you honestly care to apologize (because she may make you feel like you don't) 3A. If religious go before God, become humble 3B. If not religious, be prepared for your conscience to errupt at what happened and what she might say to anger you; instead of arguing because that's not what you went for, just walk away and try again later. Realize you cannot agree with everything she says, but realize you are in the wrong. 4. Have a thought of what you will say to prove to her you were very wrong, and want another chance with her 5. Do not force the fact/thought that you are sorry 6. Realize and know that it will take time for her to accept your apology. Start over as if you are just getting to know her with the apology. Go slow. Whether it is going as fast as you would like she is at least allowing you to speak.:) It is a start. 7. Be prepared if she does not accept your apology. But still apologize truthfully and with meaning or you probably did not care in the first place if you take it back. 8. If she accepts, still take it slow. She only accepted your apology but has not given her trust fully back to you. Be careful, act smartly. She should prove to be the only girl/women on your mind if you really want her. If you know her and know what would make her happier about the apology add that in. Ex: flowers, cards If you know what would make her angrier about the apology, best not to do it. Ex: flowers, cards Depends on the girl/women... If you do not know, have faith and do the steps given (as advice) above. Each step closer is better than no step. Steps: a. She, allowing you to talk/ letting you near b. She, caring to listen and respond (hopefully with no vulgarity) c. She, accepting your apology d. She, accepting a friendship e. She, wanting more than a friendship f. She, giving you another chance g. She, feeling like you mean your apology, care for her, and you wanting her back h. She, giving her broken heart another chance with you for you to prove yourself worthy of her. Mend her heart back together. Love her, truly. I. Slowly, but surely and thru time you will earn her trust back. : ) Goodluck!.
Yes, it's formal to hug other people to show that you appreciate them. People not only hug as a sign of a relationship and love but they also show it as a sign of friendship. …You have to trust her otherwise why else would you love her?
After cheating, it is very difficult to gain the trust. You can do that by talking to her more often.
Why does my ex girlfriend entertain my calls and talks for hours when she is in a long distance relationship with her BF?
Your ex-girlfriend is basically using you to fill a void since her own boyfriend is so far away. Don't allow yourself to get used this way because once he moves closer, you'll… be history
Talk a lot but don't always be the one to text him first or call you first...let him do the calling or texting sometimes. Also, don't try to be over controlling and ask where …he is all the time...guys don't really like that and there's other ways to know...facebook, etc...hope this helped?
Can you win back your ex girlfriend from a long distance relationship even if she has a new boyfriend?
She does not seem interested in you and is gone often