With a third party, meet with the teen at dinner and state that the arrangement is not working for either of you and that he needs to shape up or move out. Lay out the new expectations with a time limit for improvement and mandatory classes in anger management. This gives him a last gasp chance to face the issues (and you too), as well as a finite reason to send him out on his own. HOWEVER, if you feel that his abuse could turn into physical abuse, all deals are off.
If he is younger than 18, you will have to fund and co-sign for an apartment. Otherwise, you can set a date a month off for him to have a lease for you to sign (State the dollar amount) or you will be making the plans for him after that date.
All in all, it is a tough thing to navigate moving a difficult, non functioning person out of your home and regaining your peace. Pay for the truck to move him, and make sure he takes everything with him (with our guy, we rented a 26 foot truck just to be sure it all went).
Yes. As long as they're being abusive.
you can move out when you are 16 without a parents consent.
Yes
It will depend on the state or country they are in. It is possible in some places, and at a minimum, the court will move them to foster care.
* The best way for an abused man to move on from a verbally abusive relationship is to seek counseling. Just like women, men may have lost their self respect; feel demeaned and ashamed (they are suppose to be the stronger sex) and he needs to find out why he stayed so long in the abusive relationship. Without proper counseling just like women, men can choose another abusive partner in the future and don't have the tools to tell when rag flags go up that the person they are with is controlling at best and the worst .. verbally or even physically abusive. Men have been brought up to not hit women, so it is very often hard for the man to make sense as to why he put up with the abuse for so long. Men can be victims of abuse too and they should not blame themselves.
If you leave him, then it doesn't matter what he does. It wouldn't be called cheating if you left him. If he is abusive, then you should leave him.
you have to move with a adult
You can't.
Is this coming from the seventeen year old? If you've been hurt, try. It can get legal and complicated but I think you'll have to live w/ another relative till your 18 -peece
sometimes you just gotta learn to let go life will move on....it may seem hard at first but its not the end...but if she is abusive you should definitly end the realationship.
They cannot move out legally. If she is abusive, she can apply to the court for emancipation or to be moved to foster care.
Of course you're going to feel guilt or remorse. That's because you have a history with this person and a conscious. But does not mean you should let your abusive partner move back in. It is unsafe for you and for him or her. The best thing for you to do is keep your abusive partner out of the house and slowly lose contact with him or her.