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What should you do when you and your wife are in your 20s and she has told you she doesn't have a sex drive anymore and you love having sex?
Answer You could have just said the magic words "having sex!" There is a difference from just having sex and making love. When a guy says "I love having sex" …I get the feeling it's "slam, bang, thank you ma'm!" Making love is an art form (anyone can do it) and it's about pleasing each other in mind, body and spirit. It's the closest two people in love can ever get to sharing each other. Foreplay is extremely important in a relationship. Foreplay can be having a romantic dinner, being in a huge bath tub full of bubbles with candles and a bottle of wine to sip on. Long walks on the beach, communicating with each other as to what makes each other feel good while practicing foreplay and there will be some likes and dislikes with your wife so listen to what she is saying! Here is a good tip ... Put blindfolds on (as if you were blind) and then trace each other's bodies with your finger tips and also use your sense of smell. It's amazing the sensation you can get by exploring each other's bodies without actually seeing what you are doing. It takes work! She could find she is just used for sex and has no romantic rush from you so in her mind "what's the point!" Simply put, it takes more thought to make love (not having just sex) to keep sex active in your marriage. Sit down with your wife and communicate. Ask her why she doesn't feel like making love and if she has something to say open up your ears and listen! If she has nothing to say then suggest to her that she sees her doctor and has a good physical check-up PLUS a blood test to see what her hormone levels are. Also she should have her thyroid (T3/T4) and adrenal gland checked (blood test as well.) There could be some physical reason for this. Also, anyone on certain medications, especially SSRIs that are used for depression certainly lowers the libido. The fact you came on this board to ask this question means you are a good husband. It would be easy in most guy's eyes to simply go out and cheat! Nice to see someone like you care enough to ask the question. Good luck! Answer She's telling you that something is missing and that maybe you need to work on the relationship. Some women tend to have less of a sex drive after they've been married a while, especially if there are children and a lot of routine around the house for which they feel responsible. Sometimes they just need a little romance; a night away from it all, maybe a mini-vacation. Send flowers for no reason except to say that you care. Have no expectation when you do that otherwise it can just make her feel manipulated. You're trying to get her to be "in love" again. Yes, she probably cares about you and even loves you, but the spark can leave after you've been married a while, and since guys are "always ready", we tend to not notice that women seem to need a little extra attention, until it's too late and they've lost interest. If the problem has become too severe for you to handle with a trip or some flowers, maybe it would be good to seek the advice of a marriage counselor. What you're describing is the most common problem they face. My advice, take care of the problem now before it degrades into infidelity and an unresolvable problem in your marriage.
What should you do if you and your brother are in your teens and you want to have sex with him and he told you that he wants to have sex with you and you have heard that people do it all the time?
Actually, STOP PRESS, don't do it since it will mess up all your family relationships for ever in one fell swoop. You can stop seeing an ex boyfriend but can you stop seeing y…our brothers and sisters and parents uncles aunts? People should keep family to fall back on when they have no-one else in the world. Don't screw up (metaphorically) your whole family. All those people who do it all the time - they just exist in fantasy stories. It is also against the law. It is called incest. You really shouldn't because do you really want to have sex or have sex with ur brother which of the two are u really lookin for think before you act it will screw up ur life!!!
The angel Gabriel was the one who told Mary she was going to have a baby. She was about to be married to Joseph when the angel visited her.
A girl that i had a brief fling and who suffers from a mental illness told me things that she should have told her boyfriend however i haven't heard from her since.?
This is not a question. It is a statement with a question mark after it.
I had a brief relationship with a girl who suffers from a mental illness and she told me things that she should have told her boyfriend but since this i haven't heard from her?
She is probably embarrassed to face you. why would she be embrassed,was it just a game?
Tell the truth or keep lieing
Me and my brother were having sex I was sucking my brothers penis when my mum walked in on us and told us to set a better example for my little sister What should I do?
its up 2 u carry on doing it and hope u dont get caugh or stop it and never talk about it again
I Personally Think They Should Be Told About It At The Age Of 9-10 Because That's When They Will Start Gettin Pupic Hairs And wander What It Is.
Tossing & Turning, Talking, Watching TV, Lights on
When shooting a rifle namely the l85a2 should one keep both eyes open when firing I've been told different things by the people I've asked and it is confusing Both eyes open or one eye closed?
Try both and use the one that works best for you. If you try shooting the l85a2 lefthanded you'll brake your jaw and blind yourself.
What should you do if my brother told me that there is this guy that likes me should you ask him out on a date?
If you like him.. Yes.. Have amazing sex with him too :)
Sleepiness is more powerful than just plain scary. You need real and PRESENT danger to keep you awake .............
What if you had a thought that you and the guy you freaking really luv were having sex and he told you that he luvs you and you told him that you luv him too?
Maybe you could speak to your Mum calmly and ask her why? She might be able to come up with a very reasonable answer.
No, just said not to, and when she did, bad things happened.
No, it's not illegal unless they are foster children.
As a rule, yes. She has things to do and wants to be wakened up. Perhaps not, if you know that she needs more sleep and does not really need to get up.