What can I do when I am 13 and my family hates me and even my little brother hates me and only my pets love me. My family has hated me since I was 3. They have even said they wish I was never born?

Answer 1

• 13 years old is a difficult time for the 13 year old and the parents. At 13 teens try to be independent and do as they wish, but they are far from wise enough to make their own decisions in life so the parents will try their best to keep you from making mistakes or getting into trouble. In other words, you are a young bird using their wings for the first time. Also 'sibling rivalry' (you and your brother not getting along) is very normal and you may think your little brother doesn't like you, but it's not true. Your parents love you very much and sometimes when they feel they are always having to get after you for something they get frustrated and say things they don't mean. Many young people (even when I was your age) have heard their parents say, 'There are times I wish you weren't born.' These words are said out of frustration, but literally not true. It is time you started to behave yourself and realize that your parents and little brother have feelings too. There is no doubt that your little brother looks up to you so you should spend a little more time with him such as playing sports with him; take him to a movie or playing Video Games at home with him even when you may not feel like it. Try doing chores around the house for your parents; don't be rude or mouth off to your parents and realize when they are disciplining you they love you enough to do so and keep you safe and out of trouble. Don't worry so much; your parents and brother love you, but it's you that has to change. Start with 'I'm sorry and I'll try to do better.'