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Why do men say its not you when they mean yes it is?

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By saying that it is their problem, it effectively cuts you out of the discussion, and spares some of your feelings.

If they said it was you, then then they would have to

  • explain why it's you,
  • explain how you could change (if it was possible),
  • have to deal with hurt feelings, and/or anger
  • possibly be attacked themselves, either physically, verbally, or through other means such as gossip.

It is a pre-emptive strike by someone who doesn't want to deal with these problems, but just wants to end it cleanly.

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