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I think narcissists get bored with their lovers or partners, when that person no longer excites them as they did in the first flush.
To an addictive personality like a narcissist, the first kiss, first sex, first time thrill of getting someone in bed is absolutely crucial to them, like water to a plant
They cannot tolerate sameness, once the excitement in a new relationship wears off. In the normal world, we cannot constantly have an adrenaline fuelled high of falling in lust and love but the narcissist thinks we should, and seeks it out all the time. I know, I have just been dumped by one. It was a terrible experience and my self esteem was bottom of the pit. I realised he was getting bored with me over time. Nothing seemed to please him, he lost his temper with me and also criticized my body. By the way, he is 60 years of age so there is no hope it will ever change. He told me in not so many words he had found someone who could excite him again. He did not have the courage to tell me out right. He left without a word, and just texted me from somewhere ages after, and toldme that he was overseas. When he returned, he just told me he was unable to meet up as it was 'difficult'. The difficulty was that he had moved in with his new lover. I am still recovering. I lie awake at night asking all the usual questions, but it doesn't help. Am seeking therapy now.
Genna
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Narcissists become more committed partners when they experience?
Communal activation
Do violent narcissists always have a pattern with other girlfriends?
Yes.
Do female narcissists have a haughty walk?
Not always. This varies from individual to individual.
Why can't many narcissists stay employed?
For the same reasons they can't maintain a real relationship. On top of the fact they get bored VERY VERY easily.
How is the internet?
The Internet is always happy, when its bored There is always something to do.
Why do narcissists answer text messages instantly do they always carry their cell phones with them?
yes maybe....
Do narcissists morn a lost relationship?
yes. in their own selfish way. they are always the victim.
Why do narcissist do extravagant things when it would be easier to go to a new girl for sex?
Narcissists think of their mirrors (partners) as possessions. They don't want to lose them -- until they are ready.
Do you ever think he is the wrong one?
Always. Narcissists never admit to being wrong - even when they are.
Do intellectual narcissists have constantly changing interests and projects?
Yes. They will try all sorts of new interests and projects in an attempt to gain praise and adulation for their special talents. They are perfect in their minds and need the whole world to know this! New Answer-Yes i agree with the answer above,plus narcissists get bored very easily so they are always planning,dreaming imagining new projects and interests,mostly never come off the ground,stay in their minds.
How do you spell narcissists?
This is the correct spelling. Narcissists.
What is the correct way to spell bored in British English?
The English spelling is always the same, bored (uninterested, or drilled a hole).
