Why isn't your boyfriend getting hard when you suck his penis?

Answer 1

An erection is a fragile and fickle thing. When a boy is young, they appear at the slightest provocation, sometimes without warning, and often at the worst possible moment. As men grow older, the list of things that will prevent or stop an erection grows longer with each passing year. Is your boyfriend able to get an erection? Chances are, he can do that much, and if so, then it's not likely there is anything physically wrong. Here are some things to think about, in no particular order... # Do you have his complete attention? I know this sounds counter-intuitive but if his mind is not on the task at hand, he may have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection. # Do you change up your technique at all? When performing any sexual act with a partner, if you're doing the same pattern over and over again, it can become irritating or he may become numb to the stimulus. There are many things you can do to spice up the experience and make it more interesting. # Do you do this in a place where he might worry about being caught? Anxiety can be a very effective boner-slayer. # Are you attempting this when he is over-tired or drunk? Either one or the combination of the two, can reduce his ability to get or maintain an erection. # Is he on any medications? Certain heart or blood pressure medications may prevent getting a woody. # Has your boyfriend had prostate surgery? # Does he fell well? A cold or influenza, infections, and anything that might make him feel sick, could have an effect. # Could your technique be hurting or irritating to him? There are so many reasons, the surest way to find out if there is a problem, is to ask him. Don't confront him about it (a dick-dropping technique if ever there was one!), but rather, ask him if there is anything he particularly likes. He might be afraid to ask you to do something, so if you indicate your open to try stuff, he may be more responsive. Be gentle and loving, make him feel like he's the most important person in the world to you... (guys, this works BOTH ways)... and he will very likely provide you with the erection you are both seeking. Good Luck!