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You cannot dwell on things that people have done in their past or it will drive you crazy. They weren't with you at the time...so it isn't like they cheated on you. Put yourself in their position. Would you want them to worry about things that you did before you met them? Of course not.

My first serious boyfriend was with three other girls before he dated me. My friends wanted me to be upset about that, because of who one of the girls was. However, I just looked at it from the point of view that despite that, he was still with me, and he liked me--and then loved me much more than he ever liked her, and he never loved her. AND guess what, we've been together for 20 years. I'm not saying that happens for everyone, and we had ups and downs. However, that girl that he dated so long ago doesn't matter at all. We probably wouldn't still be together if I had ever let any of that stuff bother me. Part of a strong relationship is having the trust and love to let things from the past go. There are a lot of people that would have better relationships if they could learn to let things go.

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Q: Your boyfriend is your first boyfriend He loves you very much and you do too But you keep thinking about what he might have done with his ex-girlfriend how do you stop these thoughts?
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