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My girlfriend told me that she is not sure that she is ready for a serious relationship and that she needs space she also made it a big point that she was not breaking up with me?
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∙ 14y ago
This is an indication that she still has a desire to be in a relationship with you, but is struggling with taking another step. She is worried you will see that she isn't ready for something more and pass her by.
If this is not the case, assure her that you have no intention of leaving and explain where you stand in the relationship. This can be difficult for men who typically don't have a strong ability to make verbal-emotional connections. Try telling her how you feel about the relationship's status. Do you want more? Are you happy? What would make you happier? Are you serious about staying with her? These are the types of subjects you should address.
If you are interested in something more and you feel she can't offer that to you with a pinch of patience, don't short yourself on her account. Don't waste your time on someone whose goals don't align with yours if you're looking for a more serious relationship. For her sake, be sure to emphasize that there is nothing wrong with her, nor her emotional development, but things are simply not aligning between the two of you.
I wish you luck in handling this tough situation.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 15y agoi think it means she wants to break up with u it happen to me before just find another one but i could also be wrong good luck
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∙ 15y agoGive it to her, and decide if you want to wait or move on. You can't hold her if she wants to be someplace else.
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