A teenager who loses a member of their family by suicide can be
called 'a suicide survivor'. More generally a "suicide survivor" is
an individual who remains alive following the death by suicide of
someone with whom they had a significant relationship or emotional
bond.
Cain (1972: 12) wrote about the predicament of many survivors of
suicide, including, in some but by no means all cases "their
torment and their desperate need for psychological assistance". He
mentioned survivors' reactions that have included reality
distortion, fractured family relationships, guilt, disturbed
self-concept, impotent rage, mis-identification with the suicide,
depression and self-destructiveness, search for meaning and
incomplete mourning.
Some, all or none of these reactions may occur in an individual
survivor of family suicide. Each person's response is unique as
indeed is each act of suicidal behaviour. But it is known and
accepted that, complex psychological responses containing 'guilt,
shame, unmet yearning and unresolved grief' (Cain, 1972: 14) may,
in an unknown but limited number of cases, lead to pathological
depression that could be acted out in 'implacably self-destructive
ways of life...and direct suicidal behaviour - suicidal impulses,
fantasies, threats, preoccupation, repeated suicide attempts and
completed suicides'.
Significantly, Cain (1972: 14) states that survivors frequently
volunteer and often helpfully serve as lay staff in suicide
prevention agencies.
If you have experienced a family suicide, you may be able to
help yourself and others by seeking professional psychotherapeutic
support, in order to come to terms in a healthy way with your
serious loss and in recovery, to continue to live your life fully
and productively and so to deliver all of your potential as a human
being.