Why didn't you stop the affair in the first place, before things
get very serious. This is your biggest mistakes that will hunt you.
If I were you, before your mistress start talking, I will tell the
truth to your wife. Now that the consequences is finally hit you,
you will end up with nothing because you can't keep your zipper
close, ( no fun intended. You really thought that having an affair
will give you pleasure?, I guess it did but at the same time you
will destroy a lot of lives.