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Dictionary: af·fair   (ə-fâr') pronunciation
n.
  1. Something done or to be done; business.
  2. affairs Transactions and other matters of professional or public business: affairs of state.
    1. An occurrence, event, or matter: The senator's death was a tragic affair.
    2. A social function.
  3. An object or a contrivance: Their first car was a ramshackle affair.
  4. A matter of personal concern.
  5. affairs Personal business: get one's affairs in order.
  6. A matter causing public scandal and controversy: the Dreyfus affair.
  7. A romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other.

[Middle English affaire, from Old French afaire, from a faire, to do : a, to (from Latin ad; see ad-) + faire, to do (from facere).]

SYNONYMS   affair, business, concern, lookout. These nouns denote something that involves one personally: I won't comment on that; it's not my affair. That's none of your business. Mind your own concerns. It's your lookout to file your application on time.


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noun

  1. Something to be done, considered, or dealt with: business, matter, thing. See thing.
  2. A large or important social gathering: celebration, festivity, fete, function, gala, occasion, party, soiree. Informal do. Slang bash. See group, work/play.
  3. Something that concerns or involves one personally: business, concern, lookout. See relevant/irrelevant.
  4. An intimate sexual relationship between two people: amour, love, love affair, romance. See love/hatred, sex/asexual.

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pronunciation

IN BRIEF: An event or happening.

pronunciation The party was a grand affair.

Tutor's tip: It's better not to mix your "affairs" (business issues or concerns) with your "affaires" (romantic love relationships).

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Affair may refer to professional, personal, or public business matters or to a particular business or private activity, as in family affair, a private affair, or a romatic affair.

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Political affair

Political affair may refer to the illicit or scandalous activities of public officials, such as the Watergate affair, or to a legally constituted government department, for example, the United Nations Department of Political Affairs.

Romantic affair

A romantic affair, also called an affair of the heart, may refer to sexual liaisons among unwed parties, or to various forms of nonmonogamy. Unlike a casual relationship, which is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have sex without expecting a more formal romantic relationship, an affair is by its nature romantic.

Affair may also describe part of an agreement within an open marriage or open relationship, such as swinging, dating, or polyamory, in which some forms of sex with one's non-primary partner(s) are permitted and other forms are not. Participants in open relationships, including unmarried couples and polyamorous families, may consider sanctioned affairs the norm, but when a non-sanctioned affair occurs, it is described as infidelity and may be experienced as adultery, or a betrayal both of trust and integrity, even though to most people it would not be considered "illicit."

When a romantic affair lacks both overt and covert sexual behaviour and yet exhibits intense or enduring emotional intimacy it may be referred to as an emotional affair, platonic love, or a romantic friendship.

Extramarital affair

Extramarital affairs are relationships outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs.

An extramarital affair that continues in one form or another for years, even as one of the partners to that affair passes through marriage, divorce and remarriage, could be considered the primary relationship and the marriages secondary to it. This may be serial polygamy or other forms of nonmonogamy.

The ability to pursue serial and clandestine extramarital affairs whilst safeguarding the secrets and conflict of interest inherent in the practice, requires skill in deception and duplicitous negotiation. Even to hide one affair requires a degree of skill or malicious gaslighting. All these behaviours are more usually called lying.

Deception can be defined as the "covert manipulation of perception to alter thoughts, feeling, or beliefs". The presence of deception may indicate the degree to which the deceiver has breached fundamental conditions of fidelity, of reciprocal vulnerability and of transparency. Sometimes these are explicit or assumed pre-conditions of a committed intimate relationships.

Individuals having affairs with married men or women can be prosecuted for adultery in some jurisdictions and can be sued by the jilted spouses in others.[1] As of 2009, eight U.S. states permitted such alienation of affections lawsuits.[2]

Famous affairs

Further reading

  • Schmitt, D. P., et al. (2004). Patterns and universals of mate poaching across 53 nations: The effects of sex, culture, and personality on romantically attracting another person's partner. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 86, 560-584.

See also

References

  1. ^ Hat the Husband? Sue the Mistress!
  2. ^ Hat the Husband? Sue the Mistress!

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Translations: Affair
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Dansk (Danish)
n. - affære, sag, anliggende

idioms:

  • affair of honor    æressag

Nederlands (Dutch)
zaak, kwestie, verhouding

Français (French)
n. - affaire, liaison, aventure (amoureuse), affaires (npl)

Deutsch (German)
n. - Angelegenheit, Geschäft, Affäre, Verhältnis

Ελληνική (Greek)
n. - υπόθεση, ζήτημα, απασχόληση, μέλημα, εργασία, δουλειά, γεγονός, συμβάν, (δημόσιο) σκάνδαλο, ερωτική σχέση ή περιπέτεια, ερωτικός δεσμός, κοινωνική εκδήλωση

idioms:

  • affair of honor    ζήτημα τιμής, μονομαχία

Italiano (Italian)
faccenda, relazione, avventura extra coniugale

idioms:

  • affair of honor    duello
  • business affair    affare commerciale
  • public affair    affare di Stato

Português (Portuguese)
n. - romance (m), negócio (m), ocupação (f), incidente (m)

idioms:

  • affair of honor    questão (f) de honra
  • business affair    relação (f) comercial
  • love affair    romance (m), namoro (m)
  • public affair    negócios (m pl) públicos

Русский (Russian)
дело, роман

idioms:

  • affair of honor    дело чести, дуэль
  • business affair    деловое мероприятие
  • love affair    роман, любовная связь
  • public affair    представляющее общественный интерес, все знают это дело

Español (Spanish)
n. - asunto, caso, aventura amorosa

Svenska (Swedish)
n. - angelägenhet, händelse, affär

中文(简体)(Chinese (Simplified))
事, 事件, 事情, 事态, 业务, 事务, 风流韵事, 恋爱事件

idioms:

  • affair of honor    为争名而进行的决斗

中文(繁體)(Chinese (Traditional))
n. - 事, 事件, 事情, 事態, 業務, 事務, 風流韻事, 戀愛事件

idioms:

  • affair of honor    為爭名而進行的決鬥

한국어 (Korean)
n. - 사건, 연애, 물건, 소 전쟁

日本語 (Japanese)
n. - 事, 仕事, 業務, 事態, 情事, 事件, でき事, もの

idioms:

  • affair of honor    決闘

العربيه (Arabic)
‏(الاسم) شؤون تجاريه أو مهنيه, مسأله, علاقه, أمر, شأن‏

עברית (Hebrew)
n. - ‮עניין, עסק, דבר, פרשה, מאורע, משהו, פרשת אהבים, רומן‬


 
 
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