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How do you get a man's attention?
If you want to get a man's attention, you must exude confidence and let him know that you possess a quality that is attractive to any man. Men like women who are approachable,… so the best way to initially get his attention is to smile, be sincerely interested in what he has to say if he talks to you, but don't appear too eager. Always engage a man that you like by asking him a question about himself. Open up an invitation for you to share an experience with him and what his interests are if you want a date with him. Give him a hint you would love to know more about (fill in the blank) and leave it open ended of him to invite you to learn more. If a man you like is not giving you the attention you want, and you have showed a sincere interest in him, leave him be and find a man that is interested in you - if you are single. Someone is out there that will want to give you their attention. If you are married and you want to get your man's attention, wear something extra sexy and tell him you want to give him a special surprise. Do something you wouldn't do all of the time, like a back rub, or giving to him in a sexual way. If you have tried this several times, and you are not getting any attention from him, seek a marriage counselor or communicate your concerns and give him a chance to redeem himself. If he doesn't want to do either of these things, suggest a trial separation or even look into a divorce. Your husband should always want to give you attention if you make the first move...sometimes they need a nudge. If they still don't want to give you attention, they are up to no good and you need to find out what it is. Better yet, simply be open and honest. No hidden meanings, no innuendo. "I think you're interesting. Cup of coffee?" Simple, direct, honest. Men prefer that. SECOND OPINION: A loving husband will not always grant his affection at the drop of a hat. His schedule and emotions are not always dictated by his wife's desires. It is not only false, but misandristic to claim that a husband is "up to no good" if his wife is unsatisfied with his attentions. He could be too stressed to be affectionate. He could be deeply depressed. He could feel inadequate, or even unworthy of meaningful contact due to erectile dysfunction or any number of other problems, physical or mental, real or imagined. Perhaps such a man is uninterested because he thinks his wife is "up to no good." Frankly, this writer is offended that the above writer simply assumes that, if a man is not attentive over a period of time, he is automatically unfaithful. There are so many potential marital problems, malicious and otherwise, that typecasting an entire gender in such a manner reeks of ignorance and prejudgment. (MORE)
