A mature, sophisticated, well-educated, liberal-minded woman
will often prove receptive to enemas and related anal eroticism, if
asked carefully and tactfully by a man she has fallen in love with.
The bargain will typically require a marriage proposal, absolute
monogamy, and the orgasm of her choice (usually multiple) as
non-negotiable conditions of access to her rectum. If she has all
of that and a slow gentle introduction to enemas and anal sex, she
will most likely enjoy her husband's fetish as part of a good
bargain.