�O you who believe! If a Fasiq (liar � evil person) comes to you
with any news, verify it, lest you should harm people in ignorance,
and afterwards you become regretful for what you have done.� (49:6)
�Not a word does he utter but there is a watcher by him ready (to
record it).� (50:18) "Woe to every slanderer and backbiter.�
(104:1) == I wonder why we gossip? is it because it reveals others
to us? And why should others be revealed to us? Why do you want to
know others? Why this extraordinary concern about others? First of
all, why do we gossip? It is a form of restlessness, is it not?
Like worry, it is an indication of a restless mind. Why this desire
to interfere with others, to know what others are doing, saying? It
is a very superficial mind that gossips, isn't it? - an inquisitive
mind which is wrongly directed. The questioner seems to think that
others are revealed to him by his being concerned with them - with
their doings, with their thoughts, with their opinions. But do we
know others if we don't know ourselves? Can we judge others, if we
do not know the way of our own thinking, the way we act, the way we
behave? Why this extraordinary concern over others? Is it not an
escape, really, this desire to find out what others are thinking
and feeling and gossiping about? Doesn't it offer an escape from
ourselves? Is there not in it also the desire to interfere with
others' lives? Isn't our own life sufficiently difficult,
sufficiently complex, sufficiently painful, without dealing with
others', interfering with others'? Is there time to think about
others in that gossipy, cruel, ugly manner? Why do we do this? You
know, everybody does it. Practically everybody gossips about
somebody else. Why?I wonder why we gossip? is it because it reveals
others to us? And why should others be revealed to us? Why do you
want to know others? Why this extraordinary concern about others?
First of all, why do we gossip? It is a form of restlessness, is it
not? Like worry, it is an indication of a restless mind. Why this
desire to interfere with others, to know what others are doing,
saying? It is a very superficial mind that gossips, isn't it? - an
inquisitive mind which is wrongly directed. The questioner seems to
think that others are revealed to him by his being concerned with
them - with their doings, with their thoughts, with their opinions.
But do we know others if we don't know ourselves? Can we judge
others, if we do not know the way of our own thinking, the way we
act, the way we behave? Why this extraordinary concern over others?
Is it not an escape, really, this desire to find out what others
are thinking and feeling and gossiping about? Doesn't it offer an
escape from ourselves? Is there not in it also the desire to
interfere with others' lives? Isn't our own life sufficiently
difficult, sufficiently complex, sufficiently painful, without
dealing with others', interfering with others'? Is there time to
think about others in that gossipy, cruel, ugly manner? Why do we
do this? You know, everybody does it. Practically everybody gossips
about somebody else. Why? for full text, see link " on Gossip"