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How do you grind?
The easiest way to grind is butt to crotch. Just press your buttagainst where you think his is and move your body to the rhythm ofthe music. Don't press too hard on his ! Reme…mber this is asensitive area! You don't want him to be uncomfortable. If you feelhim moving you a little it is probably because you are pressing TOOHARD. Think of it as massaging his crotch with your butt. Make sureyou move with the music. If you have trouble finding the beat, thentry just moving your body with his. If you are going to do this,then make sure you press up pretty hard against him, so that yourmovements still feel good for him. If you're good at moving to thebeat and you really like the guy, then try dancing with just one ofyour buttcheeks pressed very firmly on his crotch. He will probablyuse his hands to guide your body to exactly where he wants it whenhe realizes what you're doing. Let him. Guys get really confused ifyou start doing really sexual dancing, but won't let them touch youwith their hands. If the guy turns you around and wants to dance crotch to crotch,then you can either straddle each others legs or you can dancebetween his legs. wrap your arms around his neck, and if staringinto his eyes is too awkward for you, just rest your head on hisshoulder/chest. If you're straddling each other then just think ofit as rhythmic dry humping. Press your crotch against his and dowhatever feels good for both of you. if you are dancing between hislegs (this is usually what happens if the guy is a lot taller thanthe ) then press your body against his and either move your hips incircles or roll your entire torso all over him. You may even wantto put your arms around his waist instead of his neck if he issignificantly taller. What to do about those hands? If the guy touches you somewhere that you are not comfortable with,then don't hesitate to move his hands. just gently place your handover his and slide it to a place where you are more comfortablewith him touching you (like your hips). if you don't want himtouching you at all, then try holding his hands (away from yourbody). That way you don't feel uncomfortable and he doesn't feelrejected. if the guy rests his head on your shoulder, put your handon the back of his neck or run your fingers through his hair. if hetouches you somewhere that you really enjoy, encourage him byinterlocking your fingers with his or giving his hand a gentlesqueeze (this lets him know its okay to give your butt or thigh orbreast or wherever he has his hand a little squeeze too). Final Advice: Don't do it if it doesn't feel good. Don't be afraid to sweat.Don't worry about who's watching. Don't freak out if he gets anerection. Do make sure you smell nice if you know you're going out grinding(spray perfume in your hair or on your clothing, it wont taste goodon your skin if he starts kissing/sucking/nibbling your neck andshoulders). Do wear clothing that won't get in the way of yourbodies being against each other (large belt buckles are a bad idea.Do try to keep your feet planted firmly on the ground. --- The easiest way is butt to crotch where the guy will start out withhands low on the hips. Usually if the girl wants to grind she'llbegin in a figure eight motion to the beat of the music. Don'tpress to hard! If the girl begins to press up onto the guy with onebuttcheeck then the guy will use his hands to guide her exactlywhere he wants it. If you don't feel the other person then trygrinding a little harder to get them into it and make a little softsex noise. It might help. Don't be conserned if the guy gets aboner it makes the grinding better for the girl and the guy if youwork with it. Now for the hands! A girl can just dance with her hands in the airespecially if she's not very interested in the guy. If she is alittle more interested then she'll put her hands over his on herhips. Now if the guy wants to feel the girl he has to slowly movehis hands a few different areas. Either to her inner thigh, in hercrotch, to her butt, or to her boob. If the girl wants him to touchher more, she can gently guide his hands to wear she wants them.The girl should either respond by moving his hands to a differentspot or back to her hips, or leaning further into the grind if shelikes it. If this happens then the guy should give a little massageto the area. The girl will really enjoy this and probably give youa better grind. (MORE)
