handshake

Two men shaking hands

A handshake is a short ritual in which two people grasp one of each other's like hands, in most cases accompanied by a brief up and down movement of the grasped hands.

History

Hera and Athena handshaking, late 5th century BC, Acropolis Museum, Athens

Archaeological ruins and ancient texts show that handshaking was practiced in ancient Greece as far back as the 5th century BC; a depiction of two soldiers shaking hands can be found on part of a 5th century BC funerary stele on display in the Pergamon Museum, Berlin (stele SK1708)^{[1][unreliable source?]} and other funerary steles like the one of the 4th century BC which depicts Thraseas and his wife Euandria handshaking (see images on the right). Some researchers have suggested the handshake may have been introduced in the Western World^[specify] by Sir Walter Raleigh in service with the British Court during the late 16th century.^[2] The handshake is thought by some to have originated as a gesture of peace by demonstrating that the hand holds no weapon.^[3][4][5]

Modern customs

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Shaking with the right hand while delivering a certificate with the left

Tennis players shaking hands after match

Two men shaking hands.

There are various customs surrounding handshakes, both generically and specific to certain cultures:

The handshake is initiated when the two hands touch, immediately. It is commonly done upon meeting, greeting, parting, offering congratulations, expressing gratitude, or completing an agreement. In sports or other competitive activities, it is also done as a sign of good sportsmanship. Its purpose is to convey trust, balance, and equality.^[6]

Unless health issues or local customs dictate otherwise a handshake should always be made using bare hands. In some regions especially in Continental Europe, attempting to perform a handshake while wearing gloves may be seen as an inappropriate or even derogatory behavior. In traditional American etiquette the requirement to remove a glove depends on the situation - "A gentleman on the street never shakes hands with a lady without first removing his right glove. But at the opera, or at a ball, or if he is usher at a wedding, he keeps his glove on."^[7]

• In Anglophone countries, in business situations. In casual non-business situations, men are more likely to shake hands than women. It is considered to be in poor taste to show dominance with too strong a handshake;^[6] conversely, too weak a handshake (sometimes referred to as a "limp fish" or "dead fish" handshake) could also be considered unseemly^[8] due to people perceiving it as a sign of weakness.

• In Continental European countries, people shake hands almost every time upon meeting in business situations and also in casual non-business situations.

• In Belgium, it is expected that everyone in the group shake hands upon meeting and also when leaving a meeting.^[9]

• In Switzerland, it is expected to shake the women’s hands first. Otherwise, shaking hands in order of rank is regarded as appropriate.^[9]

• Austrians shake hands when meeting, including with children.^[9]

• In some religions, such as Orthodox Judaism and Islam (according to some opinions), the prohibition against physical contact between members of opposite sexes precludes shaking hands. In these religions, men and women however do shake hands amongst people of the same gender. Between opposite genders, a short nod or bow is given. Moroccans also give one kiss on each cheek (to corresponding genders) together with the handshake. Also, in some countries, a variation exists where instead of kisses, after the handshake the handpalm is placed unto the heart.^[10]

• In the Muslim World, to shake hands with somebody is a welcome sign and the practice of the Prophet Mohammed. The social behavior of the Companions also included handshaking along with saying, "As-Salamu `Alaikum." This Hadith by Abu Dawud shows that the custom of handshaking was prevalent in Yemen before Islam. When some Yemenites came to see the Prophet, they displayed their practice of handshake. He approved of it and made it a part of his sunnah.

• In some Muslim countries (such as Turkey or the Arabic-speaking Middle East), handshakes aren't as firm as in North America and Europe. Consequently, a grip which is too firm will be considered as rude. In Turkey, outside business situations, shaking hands is not the standard greeting among men. In casual non-business situations, men will less likely shake hands and among women hardly at all. Kissing each other on the cheek twice is a more common practice.^[9]

• In China, where a weak handshake is also preferred, people shaking hands will often hold on to each other's hands for an extended period after the initial handshake.^[9]

• In Japan, it is appropriate to let the Japanese initiate the handshake, and a weak handshake is preferred.^[9]

• In South Korea, a senior person will initiate a handshake, where it is preferred to be weak. It is a sign of respect to grasp the right arm with the left hand when shaking hands.^[9]

Types of handshakes:

• Hand Hug: The "handhug" is popular with politicians, as it can present them as being warm, friendly, trustworthy and honest. This type of handshake involves covering the clenched hands with the remaining free hand, creating a sort of "cocoon."
• Dominance: Someone who displays their palm upwards is considered to show signs of authority or superiority.
• Cold and Clammy: Occurs when one person has a sweaty or cold hand. Sometimes associated with weakness - such as by passive or apathetic people.
• Crusher: Considered the favorite of those who are overly aggressive, this displays confidence and power and can be quite painful for the recipient.
• Queens Fingertips: Common in male-female encounters, it involves one person (usually the female) presenting an outstretched hand in which only the first few digits can be grasped.
• Keep Back: This handshake occurs when one party may feel threatened or intruded upon, and will keep at a (relative) distance during the handshake. ^[11]

Records

Atlantic City, New Jersey Mayor Joseph Lazarow was recognized by the Guinness Book of World Records for a July 1977 publicity stunt, in which the mayor shook more than 11,000 hands in a single day, breaking the record previously held by President Theodore Roosevelt, who had set the record with 513 handshakes at a White House reception on 1 January 1907.^{[12][dead link]}

On 21 September 2009, Jack Tsonis and Lindsay Morrison broke the Guinness World Record for the world's longest handshake, shaking hands for 12 hours, 34 minutes and 56 seconds.^[13][14] However, on 21 November that year, Matthew Rosen and Joe Ackerman surpassed this feat, with a new world record time of 15 hours, 30 minutes and 45 seconds.,^[15] certified in the latest edition of the Guinness Book of Records on page 111. At 8pm EST on Friday 14 January 2011 the latest attempt at the longest hand-shake commenced in New York Times Square and the existing record was smashed ^[16] by semi-professional world record-breaker Alastair Galpin^[17][18][19] and Don Purdon from New Zealand and Nepalese brothers Rohit and Santosh Timilsina^[20] who agreed to share the new record after 33 hours and 3 minutes.

See also

• Dap greeting
• Fist bump
• Golden handshake
• Greeting habits
• Handshake Man
• Handshaking lemma
• Holding hands

References

External links

Media related to Handshake at Wikimedia Commons The Wiktionary entry for handshake