There are many Harvest Moon games that let you play as a male character:

Harvest Moon SNES

Harvest Moon GB

Harvest Moon 2

Harvest Moon 3

Harvest Moon 64

Harvest Moon: Back to Nature

Harvest Moon: Boy & Girl

Harvest Moon: Friends of Mineral Town

Harvest Moon: A Wonderful Life

Harvest Moon: Magical Melody (Gamecube and Wii version)

Harvest Moon: A Wonderful Life Special Edition

Harvest Moon: Save the Homeland

Harvest Moon: Hero of Leaf Valley

Innocent Life: A Futuristic Harvest Moon

Innocent Life: A Futuristic Harvest Moon Special Edition

Harvest Moon: DS

Rune Factory: A Fantasy Harvest Moon

Harvest Moon: Island of Happiness

Harvest Moon: Sunshine Island

Harvest Moon: Grand Bazaar

Harvest Moon: Tale of Two Towns

Harvest Moon: Tree of Tranquility

Harvest Moon: Animal Parade

Harvest Moon: My Little Shop

Over 30.

SNES

Harvest Moon

Nintendo 64

Harvest Moon 64

Gameboy Color

Harvest Moon GBC

Harvest Moon GBC2

Harvest Moon GBC3

Playstation

Harvest Moon: Back to Nature

Harevst Moon for Girl (Only available in Japanese)

Gameboy Advance

Harvest Moon: Friends of Mineral Town

Harvest Moon: More Friends of Mineral Town

GameCube

Harvest Moon: A Wonderful Life

Harvest Moon: Another Wonderful Life

Harvest Moon: Magical Melody

Playstation 2

Harvest Moon: Save the Homeland

Harvest Moon: A Wonderful Life Special Edition

Innocent Life: A Futuristic Harvest Moon Special Edition

Playstation Portable

Harvest Moon: Boy and Girl

Harvest Moon: Hero of Leaf Valley

Innocent Life: A Futuristic Harvest Moon

Nintendo DS

Harvest Moon DS

Harvest Moon DS Cute

Harvest Moon: Island of Happiness

Harvest Moon: Sunshine Islands

Puzzle de Harvest Moon

Harvest Moon: Frantic Farming

Rune Factory: A Fantasy Harvest Moon

Harvest Moon: Grand Bazaar

Harvest Moon: Twin Villages (Only available in Japanese)

Nintendo Wii

Harvest Moon: Magical Melody

Harvest Moon: Tree of Tranquility

Harvest Moon: Animal Parade

WiiWare

Harvest Moon SNES

Harvest Moon: My Little Shop

Rune Factory started off as a spin-off of Harvest Moon, but it has separated and become it's own series. So even though there are five Rune Factory games only the first one and maybe the second one count as official Harvest Moon games.

I don't get it....the best Harvest Moon game?

The best Harvest Moon game is Harvest Moon DS/Harvest Moon DS Cute

...if that's what your asking...

Harvest Moon: DS

Harvest Moon: DS Cute

Harvest Moon: Island of Happiness

Harvest Moon: Sunshine Island

Harvest Moon: Grand Bazaar

Harvest Moon: Tale of Two Towns (that game isn't out yet. It is set to come out on September 20th 2011)

There are also spin off games that aren't like normal Harvest Moon games

Puzzle de Harvest Moon

Harvest Moon: Frantic Farming

Rune Factory: A Fantasy Harvest Moon

Rune Factory is now it's own series and not Harvest Moon anymore. But the first one is still technically a Harvest Moon game.

what harvest moon? a game.