lady in waiting

^[1] A lady-in-waiting (also called waiting maid) is a female personal assistant at a noble court, attending to a queen, a princess or other noblewoman. A lady-in-waiting is often a noblewoman of lower rank (i.e., a lesser noble) than the one she attends to, and is not considered a servant. Their duties varied from court to court. The term “Ladies in waiting” was first initialed in the 1700’s when the Queens “found” that they needed a cortege; train of assistance. They were noticed as the Queen’s personal entourage.

Renaissance England

In Tudor England, ladies-in-waiting were divided into four separate systems – great ladies, ladies of the privy chamber, Maids of Honour and chamberers. The ladies of the privy chamber were the ones who were closest to the queen and thought to be the highest level of unpaid ladies-in-waiting. Most of the other women were considered Maids of Honour. The Maids of honour were the single, unmarried ladies-in-waiting. Female relatives were often appointed because they could be trusted confidantes to the queen; Lady Margaret Lee was a Lady of the Privy Chamber to Anne Boleyn, just as Lady Elizabeth Seymour-Cromwell was to Queen Jane Seymour. The duties of ladies-in-waiting at the Tudor court were to act as royal companions, and to accompany the Queen wherever she went. There were many jobs that required the ladies-in-waiting such as: being proficient in the “modern” dances, languages, instruments, reading, writing letters for the queen, sewing/embroidery, etc. Tudor queens often had a large degree of say in who became their ladies-in-waiting. Usually ladies-in-waiting came from families that were highly thought of in good society, noble families, or trustworthy friends of the family.

France

This attitude was very different from ladies-in-waiting to French queens under the later Bourbon dynasty. There, ladies-in-waiting often acted as glorified but distant companions to the Spanish and Polish wives of Louis XIV and Louis XV. Under France's last Bourbon queen, Marie-Antoinette, several of her favorite ladies-in-waiting — notably Yolande, duchesse de Polignac — acquired huge influence and wealth for themselves. In later years, the ladies-in-waiting became discreet companions to the royal ladies of Europe, a practice which continues today^{[citation needed]}.

The United Kingdom today

In the Royal Household of the United Kingdom the term Lady-in-Waiting is used to describe a woman attending a female member of the Royal Family other than the Queen Regnant or Queen Consort. An attendant upon one of the latter is styled Lady of the Bedchamber or Woman of the Bedchamber, and the senior Lady in Waiting is the Mistress of the Robes. The Women are in regular attendance, but the Mistress of the Robes and the Ladies of the Bedchamber are normally only required for ceremonial occasions. There were formerly three offices, including Maids of Honour.

Cambodia

The Six favourite court ladies of King Sisowath which almost began from the rank of prime royal ballerina.

The illustration of court lady in Cambodia mostly refers to high ranking female servants who served more closely than any other servant to the Royal Household like food, drink, waving the fan (the khmer style), massage and sometimes the sexuality care for the male royalty. Popularity turned back to the golden age of Khmer Empire when Apsara, the celestial dancer, could be one of the court ladies. King Sisowath of Cambodia was well-known for most of his concubines being from the class of Prime royal ballerina. Court ladies in Khmer royalty may begin in the downstairs class and become concubines and then the mistress of the ruler. The royal ballerina also a part of court lady in Cambodia when they danced for the royals' happiness and did the same activities as the regular court ladies in times of no performance. Srey Snom is the formal word to describe the Khmer court lady.

Other

The term is colloquially used in film and stage, to describe an actress whose role consists of very little action or involvement.

Notable ladies-in-waiting

• Lady Mary Boleyn
  • Sister of the more famous Anne
  • Mistress to King Henry VIII in the 1520s

• Four of Henry VIII's wives
  • Anne Boleyn, Jane Seymour and Catherine Howard were all ladies-in-waiting to their predecessor before they became queen. His sixth wife, Katherine Parr, was lady-in-waiting to his daughter Mary Tudor.

• Jane Parker, Lady Rochford
  • sister-in-law of Henry's second queen, Anne Boleyn
  • lady-in-waiting to Catherine of Aragon, Anne Boleyn, Jane Seymour, Anne of Cleves and Catherine Howard
  • She was executed along with Catherine Howard at the Tower of London.

• Jane Dormer, later Duchess of Feria
  • Devout Catholic and lady-in-waiting to Queen Mary I of England

• Lady Katherine Ashley
  • governess and devoted lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth I

• Lettice Knollys, Countess of Essex and Leicester
  • Lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth I.
  • Married Robert Dudley, 1st Earl of Leicester, the Queen's great favourite, and was banished from court for it.
  • Mother of Robert Devereux, 2nd Earl of Essex, who attempted a coup d'etat and was executed for treason.

• Sarah Churchill, Duchess of Marlborough
  • a favourite of Princess Anne, later Queen Anne of Great Britain.
  • She married John Churchill, 1st Duke of Marlborough, and wielded immense political power until she fell out of favour with the queen.

• Ulrika Strömfelt
  • Swedish aristocrat and lady-in-waiting to Louisa Ulrika of Prussia.
  • Prevented the attempted Coup d'état of the queen.

• Gabrielle de Polastron, comtesse de Polignac
  • Favourite courtier of Queen Marie-Antoinette
  • Hugely influential member of the queen's household
  • She became greatly unpopular and later fled into exile in Switzerland after the Revolution of 1789

• Louise-Elisabeth, Marquise de Tourzel
  • Ultra-royalist aristocrat in the time of Louis XVI
  • She was the last governess to the royal children, the Princess Royal and Louis XVII
  • She was later made a duchess by Louis XVI's younger brother Charles X

• Lady Magdalena Rudenschöld
  • Swedish aristocrat and lady-in-waiting to Princess Sophia Albertine of Sweden.
  • Rudenschöld was a co-conspirator and agent of Gustaf Mauritz Armfelt in the called Armfelt consiracy to depose the Guardian government of Gustav IV Adolf of Sweden.
  • She was convicted of treason.

• Countess Sophie Chotek
  • Czech aristocrat and a lady-in-waiting to Archduchesse Isabella von Croy-Dülmen
  • She married the emperor's nephew, Archduke Franz Ferdinand of Austria and had four children
  • She was shot to death along with her husband. Their assassination in Sarajevo triggered World War I.

• Lady Anna Vyrubova
  • Best friend of the last Russian tsarina, Alexandra Fyodorovna.

• Murasaki Shikibu
  • Attendant to the Japanese Empress Shoshi (Akiko) in 11th century Japan.
  • Author of the world's first novel, The Tale of Genji.

• Lady Sei Shōnagon
  • Attendant to the Japanese Empress Fujiwara no Teishi from about 993-1000 C.E.
  • Author of the notable early Japanese prose collection, Pillow Book.

• Ruth, Lady Fermoy
  • A long-time friend and a lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother.
  • Maternal grandmother of Diana, Princess of Wales.

• Jane Loftus, Marchioness of Ely
  • Close friend of Queen Victoria

• Vibhavadi Rangsit, Lady-in-waiting to Queen Sirikit of Thailand, killed on a helicopter flight she diverted to pick up wounded men in Surat Thani, 16 February 1977.

• Queen Norodom Monineath Sihanouk, was before as Lady-in-waiting of former King Norodom Sihanouk of Cambodia which she known before as Paule-Monique Izzi. She generally as the 33th lady in waiting of King which then elevated to the rank as Concubine after she gave the birth to two son and finally set out recently as the queen of Cambodia.

References

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• http://www.elizabethan-era.org.uk/lady-in-waiting.htm
• http://www.medieval-renaissance.com/content/view/613/9/
• http://www.show.me.uk/site/resource/parents/pTudors/ACT79.html

See also

• Lady's companion
• Gungnyeo