If misogyny is the hatred of women and misogynist is a MAN who hates women-per OED-what's the appropriate word for the hatred of men and women who hate men. And NOT the words misandry or misandrist.?

Those are the right words. Misogyny = hatred of women (from either women or men) Misandry = hatred of men (ditto) Misanthropy = hatred of humankind Misogyny comes from the sam…e root as gynaecology, and misandry from the same root as androids (artificial men). (MORE)