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Mother's Day 2009 is Sunday, May 10.

The only mothers it is safe to forget on Mother's Day are the good ones. Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960

If you think Mother's Day is too commercialized, you're not alone. The woman called "the mother of Mother's Day," Anna Jarvis — the person who did the most to make Mother's Day a national holiday — thought so, too. She considered the printed greeting card "a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write" and in fact ended up spending her inheritance campaigning against the holiday she had helped to popularize.

But that was later. Her personal PR campaign for Mother's Day kicked off in May 1907 in Grafton, West Virginia (called the birthplace of Mother's Day), when she held a memorial for her mother in her church. The service took the form of an appreciation of her mother and those of all the attendees. The idea went statewide two years later and nationwide in 1914, when President Woodrow Wilson established Mother's Day as a national holiday.

One could say it was in Anna Jarvis's blood. Her mother, also called Anna Jarvis, was an early proponent of Mother's Day activities. At that time, after the Civil War, the day was less about showing appreciation for the woman at home and more about promoting pacifism and social activism.

If the two Mrs. Jarvises were the adoptive mothers and caregivers of Mother's Day, its birth mother was Julia Ward Howe, an abolitionist, feminist and poet who was the first woman elected to the American Academy of Arts and Letters. In 1870, she issued her Mother's Day Proclamation, which begins:

Arise then...women of this day!
Arise, all women who have hearts!
Whether your baptism be of water or of tears!

The proclamation then calls for women to "now leave all that may be left of home" to attend an international "general congress" whose purpose is:

To promote the alliance of the different nationalities,
The amicable settlement of international questions,
The great and general interests of peace.

As Ms. Howe later put it: "Why do not the mothers of mankind interfere in these matters, to prevent the waste of that human life of which they alone bear and know the cost?" So, ironically, the original Mother's Day was about urging women to put on hold their caring for hearth and home, husband and children, and work instead on making the world a better, safer place.

If your mother wonders why she, who gave of her life to you in so many ways, didn't get anything gift-wrapped this Mother's Day, feel free to present her with a printout of this essay. OR, consider the list above right.

Keep in mind:
Surveys suggest that what mothers want most is a visit or phone call from each of their children, so do try to deliver your gift in person!

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The second Sunday in May, observed in the United States as a day honoring mothers.


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Created almost single-handedly by Miss Anna Jarvis of Philadelphia who persuaded Congress, in 1913, that the second Sunday in May would be dedicated to honouring mothers and motherhood. This was brought to Britain by American soldiers during the Second World War, and was later taken up by commercial interests, becoming extremely popular from the 1950s onwards. In Britain, however, the day chosen for Mother's Day was Mid-Lent Sunday, which had previously been the traditional day for Mothering Sunday, which it in effect replaced. On the modern Mother's Day, children (and husbands) send cards, chocolates, flowers, etc., to their mothers, and many families make the mother breakfast in bed, or take over the housework for the day.

 
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Mother's Day
Mother's Day
Examples of handmade Mother's Day gifts.
Observed by United States, Mexico, Canada and Australia
Date Second Sunday in May
2008 date May 11
2009 date May 10
2010 date May 9
Related to Father's Day, Parents' Day

Mother's Day is an annual holiday that recognizes mothers, motherhood and maternal bonds in general, as well the positive contributions that they make to society. In Canada and the United States, it is celebrated on the second Sunday in May; In Mexico Mother's Day is a fixed holiday, occurring on May 10th.

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Canada

See Public holidays in Canada#Other observances

The Mother's Day holiday, like St. Valentine's Day, St. Patrick's Day, Father's Day and Halloween, is traditionally observed in Canada.[citation needed] In almost all features, it is identical to the American version of Mother's Day.

Mexico

See Public holidays in Mexico#Festivities

"Día de las Madres" is an unofficial holiday in Mexico held each year on May 10th.[1]

United States

Early "Mother's Day" was mostly marked by women's peace groups.[1] A common early activity was the meeting of groups of mothers whose sons had fought or died on opposite sides of the American Civil War.

In 1868 Ann Jarvis created a committee to establish a "Mother's Friendship Day" whose purpose was "to reunite families that had been divided during the Civil War", and she wanted to expand it into an annual memorial for mothers, but she died in 1905 before the celebration became popular.[2]

In New York City, Julia Ward Howe led a "Mother's Day" anti-war observance in 1872[1][3], which was accompanied by a Mother's Day Proclamation. The observance continued in Boston for about 10 years under Howe's personal sponsorship, then died out.[4]

Several years later, a Mother's Day observance on May 13, 1877 was held in Albion, Michigan, over a dispute related to the temperance movement.[5] According to local legend, Albion pioneer, Juliet Calhoun Blakeley, stepped up to complete the sermon of the Rev. Myron Daughterty, who was distraught because an anti-temperance group had forced his son and two other temperance advocates to spend the night in a saloon and become publicly drunk. In the pulpit, Blakeley called on other mothers to join her. Blakeley's two sons, both traveling salesmen, were so moved that they vowed to return each year to pay tribute to her and embarked on a campaign to urge their business contacts to do likewise. At their urging, in the early 1880s, the Methodist Episcopal Church in Albion set aside the second Sunday in May to recognize the special contributions of mothers.

Frank E. Hering, President of the Fraternal Order of Eagles, made the first known public plea for "a national day to honor our mothers" in 1904. [6][7]

In its present form, Mother's Day was established by Anna Marie Jarvis, following the death of her mother on May 9, 1905; she made the first official celebration in 1908 and then she campaigned to establish Mother's Day as a U.S. national holiday, and later as an international holiday.[1]

Originally the Andrew's Methodist Episcopal Church, the site of the original Mother's Day commemoration, where Anna handed out carnations, the International Mother's Day Shrine is now a National Historic Landmark. From there, the custom caught on—spreading eventually to 46 states. The holiday was declared officially by some states as early as 1912, beginning with West Virginia. On May 8, 1914, the U.S. Congress passed a law designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day and requesting a proclamation. [8][9] On May 9, 1914, President Woodrow Wilson made that proclamation, declaring the first national Mother's Day, [10][8] as a day for American citizens to show the flag in honor of those mothers whose sons had died in war. [8]

Carnations have come to represent Mother's Day, since they were delivered at one of its first celebrations by its founder. [10] This also started the custom of wearing a carnation on Mother's Day. [6] The founder, Anna Jarvis, chose the carnation because it was the favorite flower of her mother.[11] In part due to the shortage of white carnations, and in part due to the efforts to expand the sales of more types of flowers in Mother's Day, the florists promoted wearing a red carnation if your mother was living, or a white one if she was dead; this was tirelessly promoted until it made its way into the popular observations at churches.[12][6]

In May 2008, the US House of Representatives voted twice on a resolution commemorating Mother's Day[13][14], the first one being unanimous so that all congressmen would be on record showing support for Mother's Day.[citation needed]

Related events

In the United States, "Mother's Day Work Clubs" were organized by Anna Jarvis's mother, Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis (1832-1905), to improve sanitation and health in the area. These clubs also assisted both Union and Confederate encampments controlling a typhoid outbreak, and conducted a "Mothers' Friendship Day" to reconcile families divided by the Civil War.

References

  1. ^ a b c d The History of Mother's Day from The Legacy Project, a Legacy Center (Canada) website
  2. ^ Larossa, 1997, pag 172
  3. ^ The First Anniversary of 'Mother's Day'", The New York Times, June 3, 1874, p. 8: "'Mother's Day,' which was inaugurated in this city on the 2nd of June, 1872, by Mrs. Julia Ward Howards[sic], was celebrated last night at Plimpton Hall by a mother's peace meeting..."
  4. ^ Julia Ward Howe's Mother's Day for Peace, about.com
  5. ^ Mother's Day from "Albion's Historical Markers", maintained by an Albion, Michigan business
  6. ^ a b c "Annie's "Mother's Day" History Page". http://www.annieshomepage.com/mothershistory.html. Retrieved on 2008-06-26. 
  7. ^ "Fraternal Order of Eagles: The History of Mother's Day". http://www.foe.com/about-us/mothers-day.aspx. Retrieved on 2008-01-26. 
  8. ^ a b c Rice, Susan Tracey and Robert Haven Schauffler. Mother's day: its history, origin, celebration, spirit, and significance as related in prose and verse. pp. 4-5. http://books.google.com/books?id=pkAOAAAAIAAJ&pg=PA4. "in 1914 Congress passed a law, which Wilson signed on May 8, 1914, 'designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day', and authorizing and requesting that Wilson issue a proclamation 'calling upon the government officials to display the United States flag on all buildings, and the people of the United States to display the flag at their homes or other suitable places on the second Sunday in May as a public expression of our love and reverence for the mothers of our country.'" 
  9. ^ 71 - Mother's Day Proclamation, Franklin D. Roosevelt, May 3, 1934.
  10. ^ a b Today in History: May 9 Library of Congress
  11. ^ Leigh, 1997, pag. 260
  12. ^ Leigh, 1997, pag. 274
  13. ^ House Vote #274 (May 7, 2008) H. Res. 1113: Celebrating the role of mothers in the United States and supporting the goals and ideals of Mother's Day (Vote On Passage)
  14. ^ House Vote #275 (May 7, 2008) Table Motion to Reconsider: H RES 1113 Celebrating the role of mothers in the United States and supporting the goals and ideals of Mother’s Day

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