Orgasm denial is generally used during BDSM and most commonly by
women on men, as a mans orgasmic response is much easier to judge
and thus be in control of. Orgasm denial is when a person is
brought to the point where they are just about to achieve orgasm
then the stimulation is stopped and the orgasm is allowed to
subside. Then the stimulation is continued, again to the point just
before an orgasm becomes inevitable, then the stimulation is
stopped again. This cycle of repeatedly bringing the person just to
the edge of orgasm and denying them that orgasm is known as orgasm
denial. This is sometimes continued for hours and is considered a
form or torture because in orgasm denial, the person never is
allowed to orgasm. Keep in mind that the person who is receiving
this will need to be properly restrained as someone who has been
about to orgasm constantly for hours at a time will do about
anything to achieve that orgasm. This is not to be confused with a
ruined orgasm or a blocked orgasm. A ruined orgasm occurs when the
person is brought just past the point where orgasm is inevitable
but before the orgasm actually begins and the stimulation is
stopped cold, this results in a very weak and short lived orgasm
which can be very uncomfortable and the person will often continue
to be very aroused afterward, in the case of a man, a small amount
of ejaculate may be released but the full quantity of ejaculate is
not dispersed from the body, and the erection is most commonly
maintained with little or no flaccid period before his body is
again ready for an orgasm. In the case of a blocked orgasm, this
refers to only men and it occurs when the body is brought to the
point of orgasm and ejaculation but the ejaculate isn't allowed to
leave the body, usually by means of constriction to the base of the
penis and by firm pressure on the area between the scrotum and
anus. The body still goes through all the motions of ejaculation
but it is blocked, this can be very painful and dangerous as the
ejaculate, not being able to exit the penis, can instead go into
the bladder, this is known as retrograde ejaculate. One benefit of
a blocked orgasm is that if the majority of ejaculate isn't
expelled from the body another erection and orgasm is usually
possible shorty afterward.