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\nThe best approach really is to keep a journal of specific incidences. Then, (if you can't get the N to go), take these accounts to a licensed Psychol
…ogist - preferably a PhD. They will be able to give you a good idea of what you are dealing with. Although, they cannot technically diagnose without meeting personally with the N. I thank God I was able to get a diagnosis from a PhD who met with my ex-N. Best wishes, AlwaysLearning\n.
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\nUmmmm.... I'm thinking that a lover, of only 6 months, doesn't warrant your spending time on trying to dx him. Why would you volunteer for this? What is attractive about this to you? Why do you think figuring this out is important? You don't have to figure this person out and I would suggest that you will fail, no matter how many years you spend and how many therapists you drag him to. Just be thankful you can enjoy him, if he really is that attractive to you, and keep looking for people who lift you up. Don't try to fix or change him..... you're not married to this person. It would be better for you if you didn't pretent you were. Tremusan (MORE)