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n., pl. -ies.
  1. Sympathy and sorrow aroused by the misfortune or suffering of another.
  2. A matter of regret: It's a pity she can't attend the reception.

v., -ied, -y·ing, -ies.

v.tr.

To feel pity for.

v.intr.

To feel pity.

idiom:

have (or take) pity on

  1. To show compassion for.

[Middle English pite, from Old French, from Latin pietās, piety, compassion, from pius, dutiful.]

pityingly pit'y·ing·ly adv.

SYNONYMS  pity, compassion, commiseration, sympathy, condolence, empathy. These nouns signify kindly concern aroused by the misfortune, affliction, or suffering of another. Pity often implies a feeling of sorrow that inclines one to help or to show mercy: felt pity for the outcast. Compassion denotes deep awareness of the suffering of another and the wish to relieve it: “Compassion is not weakness, and concern for the unfortunate is not socialism” (Hubert H. Humphrey). Commiseration signifies the expression of pity or sorrow: expressed their commiseration over the failure of the experiment. Sympathy denotes the act of or capacity for sharing in the sorrows or troubles of another: “They had little sympathy to spare for their unfortunate enemies” (William Hickling Prescott). Condolence is a formal, conventional expression of pity, usually to relatives upon a death: extending condolences to the bereaved family. Empathy is an identification with and understanding of another's situation, feelings, and motives: Having changed schools several times as a child, I feel empathy for the transfer students.


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noun

  1. Sympathetic, sad concern for someone in misfortune: commiseration, compassion, condolence, empathy, sympathy. See pity.
  2. A great disappointment or regrettable fact: crime, shame. Slang bummer. Idioms: a crying shame. See good/bad.

verb

    To experience or express compassion: ache, commiserate, compassionate, feel, sympathize, yearn. Idioms: be sorry, havetakepity. See pity.

 
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n

Definition: feeling of mercy toward another
Antonyms: cruelty, disdain, indifference, malevolence, mercilessness

n

Definition: sad situation
Antonyms: advantage, blessing, good fortune

v

Definition: feel sorry for; spare
Antonyms: be cruel, disdain, be indifferent, scorn


 
A cynical view of the world by Ambrose Bierce


n.

A failing sense of exemption, inspired by contrast.


 
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pronunciation

IN BRIEF: To feel sorrow or compassion for the suffering or trouble of others..

pronunciation Pity swells the tide of love. — Edward Young (1683-1765)

 
Quotes About: Pity
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Quotes:

"Pity makes the world soft to the weak and noble to the strong." - Sir Edwin Arnold

"Nobody can tell what I suffer! But it is always so. Those who do not complain are never pitied." - Jane Austen

"Pity cost nothing and ain't worth nothing." - Josh Billings

"God put self-pity by the side of despair like the cure by the side of the disease." - Albert Camus

"A tear dries quickly when it is shed for troubles of others." - Marcus T. Cicero

"Pity is a thing often vowed, seldom felt; hatred is a thing often felt, seldom avowed." - Charles Caleb Colton

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Pity by William Blake

Pity evokes a tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow or empathy for a people, person, or animal in misery, pain, or distress. In regard to humans, a protective or quasi-paternal feeling of pity may be felt towards marginalized or impoverished people such as homeless families; orphans; people with disabilities or terminal illness, and victims of rape and torture. People who have previously experienced the pain or misfortune in question may feel greater pity. Because pity will often result in the pitier aiding the pitied, some people equate pity with sympathy and assume, therefore, that pity is naturally a positive thing. However, the philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche believed that pity causes an otherwise normal person to feel his or her own suffering in an inappropriately intense, alienated way. "Pity makes suffering contagious,"[citation needed] he says in The Antichrist, meaning that it is important for the pitier not to allow him/herself to feel superior to the pitied, lest such a power imbalance result in the pitied retaliating against the help being offered.

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History

In Ancient Greece, Aristotle argued (Rhetoric 2.8) that in before a person can feel pity for another human, the person must first have experienced suffering of a similar type, and the person must be somewhat distanced or removed from the sufferer. [1] In Aristotle described pity in his Rhetoric: "Let pity, then, be a kind of pain in the case of an apparent destructive or painful harm of one not deserving to encounter it, which one might expect oneself, or one of one's own, to suffer, and this when it seems near".[1] Aristotle also pointed out that "people pity their acquaintances, provided that they are not exceedingly close in kinship; for concerning these they are disposed as they are concerning themselves....For what is terrible is different from what is pitiable, and is expulsive of pity".[1] Thus, from Aristotle's perspective, in order to feel pity, a person must believe that the person who is suffering does not deserve their fate.[1] The concept of pity was part of the Greek literary traditions of tragedy and epic.

The religious concept of pity changed after the introduction of Christianity; while Greek and Roman gods were not believed to feel pity (since they were thought to be invulnerable), the Christian religion proposed a deity which felt pity for humans. By the nineteenth century, two different kinds of pity had come to be distinguished, which we might call "benevolent pity" and "contemptuous pity" (see Kimball). David Hume observed that pity which has in it a strong mixture of good-will, is nearly allied to contempt, which is a species of dislike, with a mixture of pride. It is an emotion that almost always results from an encounter with a real or perceived unfortunate, injured, or pathetic creature.[citation needed] A person experiencing pity will experience a combination of intense sorrow and mercy for the person or creature, often giving the pitied some kind of aid, physical help, and/or financial assistance.[citation needed] Although pity may be confused with compassion, empathy, commiseration, condolence or sympathy, pity is different from all of these. Nietzsche pointed out that since all people to some degree value self-esteem and self-worth, pity can negatively affect any situation. Additionally, pity may actually be psychologically harmful to the pitied: Self-pity and depression can sometimes be the result of the power imbalance fostered by pity, sometimes with extremely negative psychological and psycho-social consequences for the pitied party.

Though in his later works he reverses his position and sees Pity as an emotion that can draw beings together, Mystic poet William Blake is known to have been ambivalent about the emotion Pity. In The Book of Urizen Pity begins when Los looks on the body of Urizen bound in chains (Urizen 13.50-51). However, Pity furthers the fall, "For pity divides the soul" (13.53), dividing Los and Enitharmon (Enitharmon is named Pity at her birth). Analyzers of this work assert that Blake shows that "Pity defuses the power of righteous indignation and proper prophetic wrath that lead to action. Pity is a distraction; the soul is divided between it and the action a 'pitiable' state demands. This is seen as Los's division into active male and tearful female, the latter deluding the former." Again railing against Pity in The Human Abstract, Blake exclaims: "Pity would be no more, / If we did not make somebody Poor" (1-2).

Neurological perspectives

Modern neurology asserts that pity consists of an initial aversion to the plight of the sufferer, after which the higher parts of the brain make a more nuanced assessment of the situation (e.g., considering the context and invoking empathy, etc.).

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References

  1. ^ a b c d David Konstan, Pity Transformed. London: Duckworth, 2001. Pp. 181. ISBN 0-7156-2904-2.

Further reading

  • Robert H. Kimpoop. "A Plea for Pity". In Philosophy and Rhetoric, volume 37:4.
  • David Konstan, Pity Transformed. London: Duckworth, 2001. Pp. 181. ISBN 0-7156-2904-2.
  • David Hume, An Enquiry concerning the Principles of Morals, in his Enquires concerning Human Understanding and concerning the Principles of Morals. ed. L.A. Selby-Bigge, 3rd ed. P.H. Nidditch (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 1975 [1st]) Sec. VI Part II, p.248, n.1. pub. 1751
  • Stephen Tudor, Compassion and Remorse: Acknowledging the Suffering Other
  • Lauren Wispé. The Psychology of Sympathy. Springer, 1991. ISBN 0-306-43798-8, ISBN 978-0-306-43798-4

 
Translations: Pity
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Dansk (Danish)
n. - medlidenhed
v. tr. - have medlidenhed med
v. intr. - have medlidenhed med

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    for Guds skyld
  • more's the pity    desværre
  • take pity on    få medlidenhed med
  • What a pity    det er en skam

Nederlands (Dutch)
medelijden, spijtig iets, vergiffenis, medelijden hebben met

Français (French)
n. - pitié, dommage
v. tr. - avoir pitié de, plaindre
v. intr. - avoir pitié de, se plaindre

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    par pitié
  • have pity    avoir pitié de
  • more's the pity    c'est d'autant plus dommage
  • take pity    avoir pitié de, prendre pitié de
  • What a pity    Quel dommage (excl)

Deutsch (German)
n. - Mitleid
v. - bedauern

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    um Himmels willen
  • have pity    Erbarmen mit jmdm./einem Tier haben
  • more's the pity    leider
  • take pity    Erbarmen mit jmdm. haben
  • What a pity    Wie schade !

Ελληνική (Greek)
n. - οίκτος, έλεος, λύπηση, κρίμα
v. - λυπούμαι, οικτίρω, σπλαχνίζομαι

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    για όνομα του Θεού!
  • more's the pity    δυστυχώς
  • take pity on    δείχνω έλεος σε
  • What a pity    τι κρίμα!

Italiano (Italian)
avere pietà di, compassione

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    per l'amor di Dio
  • more's the pity    tanto peggio
  • take pity on    aver pietà di
  • what a pity!    che peccato!

Português (Portuguese)
n. - pena (m)
v. - compadecer-se

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    por piedade
  • more's the pity    tanto pior
  • take pity on    ter pena de
  • what a pity!    Que pena!

Русский (Russian)
жалеть, жалость

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    из жалости
  • more's the pity    а жаль
  • take pity on    пожалеть
  • what a pity!    какая жалость!

Español (Spanish)
n. - pena, lástima
v. tr. - compadecerse de, apiadarse de
v. intr. - compadecerse de, apiadarse de

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    ¡por piedad!, ¡por amor de Dios!
  • have pity    tener piedad de, tener lástima
  • more's the pity    tanto peor
  • take pity    tener piedad de, tener lástima de
  • What a pity    ¡qué lástima!, ¡que pena!

Svenska (Swedish)
n. - medlidande, synd, skada
v. - tycka synd om, beklaga

中文(简体)(Chinese (Simplified))
憾事, 同情, 怜悯, 可怜

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    发发慈悲吧
  • more's the pity    尤为憾事, 不幸的是...
  • take pity on    同情
  • What a pity    多遗憾啊!

中文(繁體)(Chinese (Traditional))
n. - 憾事, 同情, 憐憫
v. tr. - 憐憫, 同情
v. intr. - 可憐

idioms:

  • for pity's sake    發發慈悲吧
  • more's the pity    尤為憾事, 不幸的是...
  • take pity on    同情
  • What a pity    多遺憾啊!

한국어 (Korean)
n. - 동정, 애석한 일, 유감스러운 일
v. tr. - 불쌍히 여기다
v. intr. - 동정을 느끼다

idioms:

  • take pity on    ~을 불쌍히 여기다
  • What a pity    얼마나 딱한 일이냐, 유감 천만이다

日本語 (Japanese)
n. - 哀れみ, 残念なこと
v. - かわいそうに思う, 気の毒に思う, 哀れむ

idioms:

  • more's the pity    一層困る, なおさら残念
  • take pity on    気の毒に思う
  • what a pity!    残念だ!

العربيه (Arabic)
‏(الاسم) شفقه, رحمه, شيء يدعو للأسف والرثاء, رثاء, أسف (فعل) يرثي ل, يشفق على‏

עברית (Hebrew)
n. - ‮רחמים, חמלה, סיבה לחרטה‬
v. tr. - ‮ריחם על‬
v. intr. - ‮ריחם על‬


 
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