They were raised Catholic. Usually Catholics who dabble in the "dark arts" as the Farrellys have, are paid a visit by a priest and challenged to steer their audience toward God. Although raunchy humor is tolerated by the Church, such a visit most probably occurred, since the Farellys had Jim Carrey suck on Shannon Whirry's tit in Me Myself and Irene, which crosses the line between theoretical raunchiness(jokes simply in bad taste) and actual raunchiness. The Pope once had lunch with David Hasellhoff, after which Hoff commanded his crew and writers to tone down the sexual content on his show. The Pope specifically has addressed pornography, and it's ability to "humiliate" the "actors".

This is a matter of personal preference. If both women have mostly the same friends and do not want any of raunchiness, then they should celebrate together. If the two women have different circles of friends and different ideas of what tone the party should have, then they should consider having separate parties.

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