Rudeness is simply rudeness. Rudeness does not favor a certain
sex, race, color, age or ethnic background over another. If there
is a discriminatory act, or a discriminatory comment involved along
with rudeness, then the guilty party has committed two social
offenses, not just the one.
That being said... rudeness and ignorance sadly become
intertwined on a regular basis. Ignorance of cultural and regional
customs can be construed by others as 'rudeness' and also as
'discrimination'.
It is possible there was genuine ignorance involved in the
actions or comments seen as discrimination. Was it actually
discrimination? Or was it simply rudeness? I can't answer the
question fully not knowing the circumstances that lead to this
question being posted.