It's a bad idea for many reasons. It doesn't show good judgment nor maturity. It doesn't set a good example for your child. It leads to confusion and misunderstanding of the norms of a civilized society and exposes them to someone the other parent doesn't know and therefore cannot approve of. You would need to teach your child to be secretive and dishonest in order not to have them tell their other parent about the encounters. The child would be placed in an uncomfortable and unwholesome position.

At the time of the eventual divorce remember that judges are human and they have a lot of wiggle room when rendering decisions. Having a "significant other" in the picture during your marriage and then exposing your child to that illicit affair would not result in sympathetic decisions on the part of the judge over contested matters. Your spouse could use that poor judgment against you in custodial matters.

It's a bad idea for many reasons. It doesn't show good judgment nor maturity. It doesn't set a good example for your child. It leads to confusion and misunderstanding of the norms of a civilized society and exposes them to someone the other parent doesn't know and therefore cannot approve of. You would need to teach your child to be secretive and dishonest in order not to have them tell their other parent about the encounters. The child would be placed in an uncomfortable and unwholesome position.

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