Are abusive men on a mission to totally destroy their partner's self worth and if so why would they do that?

Answer 1

Abusive men are weak, this is the reason why they feel the need to control, manipulate and destroy someone elses self worth. They feel like they are worthless deep down and so they prowl for women that are either easily submissive or strong women to try and kill their self esteem. Understand this is a illness also, its called Narcissism. A very very deadly psychological mentality that leads the person to believe that you belong to them or that no body else should be happy if they arent happy. If you bring up the illness to them it will most likely be denied or pushed aside as narcissist live in denial. Its never their fault directly, its someone elses fault that they acted out the ways they do, they constantly make excuses for themselves. Best way to handle any type of abussive situation is to flee away from them, they will follow because they always do. Isnt ironic how a person will hurt somebody then once the person is gone they come after you to see 'how youve been after theyve been nasty or spiteful'. Narcissist are a disgrace to themselves and everyone around them because they have no remorse and lack empathy. Stay away from abusive people, emotional physical or mentally abusive people are no good for you. Be safe, and maybe try and seek help for them even though they'll deny it anyways.