Are dudes picky or are they cowards?

Answer 1

Some of us guys, when we're really popular, get picky. However, calling anyone who can't talk to a girl a coward is a bit harsh, seeing as that includes about 80 percent of teen guys. If dudes aren't hitting on you, the problem is most likely that you've made yourself unapproachable. This can be caused by things like you being picky or, quite commonly, being too hot. Yes, I said it, too hot. Although looking good really increases your chances with us, there is a point where only the jerks who think they're king of the world think they're good enough to try at you. Unless you like one of these jerks, thats not what you want to do at all. Another thing that happens is that you girls will occasionally ignore us. It may not seem like much to you, but to us it sends out a big fat "I DO NOT WANT YOU" and turns guys away very quickly.