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If you're in the US, the child can decide at 18. Until then if the non-custodial parent has a visitation order that must be followed. If there is a legitimate reason why the child does not want to visit, then the custodial parent needs to go to court and request that the visitation order be changed.

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18,That really depends on how much court time and animosity there is between parents. I mean, if the child is 11 and doesn't want to see one parent, be careful you could be blamed. See if the child's school offers some kind of counseling. that would be the way to go. a professional opinion is always best. but.. if you think something hinky is going on during visitation tell someone.. teacher, clergy, cop. better safe than sorry.

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I think it should be 12. If the child doesn't want to see the non-costodial parent,then why should they? When the non-costodial parent signs the kids over, they can't just take it back and say that they want them back. They would have to start up a new court date and fight more for the kids. I mean, still why shouldn't the kids get to choose? They are old enough at the age of 12 to choose who they want to stay with. If the choose the on they are staying with presently, that's fine,it's their choice. But what is the correct age for the kids to choose not to see the non-costodial parent?

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12y ago

When they are 18. The child is a minor and is not allowed to decide and you have to do everything you can to follow court order. Any changes in visitation, custody or child support must be made through the proper legal procedures in your state.

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It is at the age of 12 in NC not sure about other states. This may vary stat-to-state.

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